you know absolutely nothing about the situation. if you want to know why i'm asking this, you can see my other questions, but i'm just curious as to what I'm gonna be looked on as. thanks for your opnion.
oh and don't judge before you know. i didn't have sex, the baby's not mine.
2007-05-29 23:25:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I would initially assume that it was his baby brother or possibly even a niece or nephew....and then I probably wouldn't think about it again.
Wow...I just read your other question and I'm very impressed with you. I commend you for taking on such a huge responsibility in such difficult circumstance and I certainly hope that everything will somehow work out for you. I think the way to go is with some sort of social service agency. Find an adult that you trust and tell them what's going on so they can be there with you through this as an advocate for you. It may get messy, but it sounds like you are very determined here so do what you need to do to make this happen. Best wishes and prayers to you!
2007-05-29 23:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by Some Guy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i try not to judge anyone or any situation without knowing everything about it and even then i am careful, but i have read your other question and i would like to say i wish you all the best. I am 16 myself and i believe if i was in the same situation i would be looking at the same option because thats the type of person i am. So i wish you all the best with everything and good luck. Please just make sure you are not affraif to ask counsellors and other respective people for help if you need it the world is not an easy place. GOOD LUCK
2007-05-30 07:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by **LOVELIFE** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I saw a 16 year old male with a baby I would hope that it is his younger sibling.....
I just read your other questions. You are a strong young man who obviously is way older than your years. Don't give a sh*t about what anyone thinks about you and how you look when you are taking care of your new baby brother or sister. In relation to your question about you getting custody of your new sibling. Perhaps there is a way you and your little brother or sister can live in a foster home until you are 18?
I really hope that your life turns out to be a wonderful and fulfilling one. You deserve it.
2007-05-30 06:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first I'd think that he just made mistake but he is carry with the responsabilities, which is more than any other guys do...
Then I would ask more, like if is his child and stuff like that.
I read your profile, and I got to tell you is VERY brave what you are doing, not many other guys, not even adults, would do something like that.
I think most people wil look at you and think that the baby is yours, because that what you see now, but when they know you story, things will change. People will respect you even more because It takes a lot raising a child that is not even yours on your own.
So dont worry, that kid is going to be so proud of you when he/she growus up, and in the mean time, yeah most people would think that is your baby, but I dont think you should pay any attention to that.
And if you are worry about girls, at first is going to be difficult i guess, but as a girl I gotta say that is very nice what you are doing, and I wouldn't mind that you have a kid, and any girl would be lucky to have you...!!
Good luck with everything,
and that kid is so lucky to have you...!! =)
2007-05-30 08:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by SB2217 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Aww.. i think its really sweet your gonna take care of this and be there for it. Trust me its really hard growing up without a dad or with a bad one. Dont worry about what other people think, and if they stare screw them!!
And i just read your profile if you went off what others think and most would think u screwed up imagine how the baby would feel without a dad. Oh and this baby could change your life and make you feel better it happens a lot!!!
Good Luck â»
2007-05-30 10:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lets play Russian Roulette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can't judge his age by just looking at him. Still, I might think he looked a little young to be a father, so I would probably assume that the baby was a sibling.
2007-05-30 06:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel sorry for him. But I'd also be glad that he chose to stick around and be a father while some other teenage men just run or try to deny paternity.
Sad that he has to give up his own life to raise a child. I'd feel bad because its a choice he made and he can't undo it. And he's stuck with the consequences of his actions for quite some time.
2007-05-30 08:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think that the 16 year old is a great person to take care of his child or sibling. So many guys just cut and run as soon as their girlfriend gets pregnant and don't take care of their children. I've read your other questions and I hope you get custody of your sibling.
2007-05-30 06:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I saw a 16-year-old male with a baby, I would just hope it was his little brother.
2007-05-30 09:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it could be a nephew etc. I would not even pay much attention, however these days I'd see a young man who stepped up to the plate to be a man and be a part of a childs life his or not. I would not think ill of him at all.
2007-05-30 07:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋