It feels like the walls is closing in on i feel like running away to a place where it is only me and no one else
I feel like leaving my bf for no reason at all just to get out of things
Although he is caring and what to help but i cant talk to him, he will just get angry at me this is all due to a checimal deffect on his brain he is getting treatment for it.
I had an abortion about 2weeks ago and there is still allot of things in my past that i havent talked to any one about
I just feel like crying my heart out for no reason
But the reality is that i cant run away from everything, i cant cry
Why is that im feeling this way, what can i do?
2007-05-29 19:19:02 · 8 answers · asked by SAgirl 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
A lot of people have suggested depression, however there is a more precise possible answer. Post-partum depression can occur in women after they give birt, miscarry or have an abortion. It's a condition that s caused both by chemical/hormonal changes as well as a kind of separation anxiety around losing something that was such a close part of you. PPD can be very severe and needs immediate attention by a licensed counselor. That being said, I don't know for sure if it's depression, PPD, or some other medical condition. I do know hyperthyroidism can also cause depression like symptoms. Also I don't want to jump to conclusions about this having anything to do with your abortion, it sounds like your boyfriend is unable to be supportive to you due to whatever his condition is, and that could be a major part of this as well. The fact is that you need to be seen by a licensed counselor as soon as possible. This should also be done in conjunction with seeing your primary care physician to rule out any possible medical conditions. Get help, find someone that you can talk to. You're only as sick as the secrets you keep, so get everything in the open. I know depression can hold you hostage and make your life miserable, expecially when it gets so bad you no longer have the energy to ask for help. Fight against and keep positive, you will survive I promise. Good luck.
2007-05-29 20:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by AA1981 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are in a deep depression. I recommend you seek immediate assistance from either a clinic or your regular doctor. You do need to feel this Way, and there are resources out there to help you. Please listen to me ok. I have been in a similar situation, although i am a male, the depression is very much like mine was. I was lucky, i had people who cared and helped me through it.
2007-05-30 02:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by provocature_agent 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is guilt.
You took the life of your baby, and it hurts.
I'm not saying this to be mean, but abortion is wrong and I know of many women who have felt the same way as you after an abortion.
God loves you and wants to heal you and forgive you.
Only He can give you the peace you need.
If you can believe He sent His son Jesus to pay the price of your sin, and you are willing to turn away from your sin, He will forgive you, wipe your sin away and you'll have a relationship with God.
You are very young to have messed up your life so much already.
Talk to God in prayer and ask Him to forgive you, and He will give you peace that passes all understanding. You'll never regret it!
That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed.
God bless you
2007-05-30 02:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
There's a website for people like you. I'll post it.
http://www.silentnomoreawareness.org/testimonies/index.html
This organization is for women who have had abortions. They do quite a bit of advocacy, but they also offer therapy. Pick and choose what you need from them.
2007-05-30 02:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by artsy_lovely_lady 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It seems that your feelings are due to events that have happend to you, and subconciuosly they are bothering you. i think some sort of counseling will help. Try looking for a therapist.
2007-05-30 02:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by aphrodite_urgod 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
find a good therapists it may be natural but can be helped
2007-05-30 02:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe you just need to feel loved even more.
but God really really loves you!
2007-05-30 02:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
r u hot?
2007-05-30 02:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋