pregnant he didnt want a baby but I didnt want an abortion Friday I am suppose to have the baby and we still live together should I tell him I will be going into the hospital on Friday and what would you say. He think I am trying to ruin his life by bringing the baby in this world but yet he been here throughout the pregnancy no negative answers please.
2007-05-29 16:23:24 · 13 answers · asked by choppa g 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You should keep the baby.
You shouldn't kill a life for ur boyfriend.
If he thinks you are ruining his life by bringing baby, sorry but he's not right man for you.
you should meet someone who respects you no matter what.
2007-05-29 16:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by Nana 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hope he will be there during the delivery for support, but you should consider putting the baby up for adoption since the baby clearly is not going to have a responsible and loving father.
Men do not change who they are in the blink of an eye just because they see a baby born. Remember this is the man who told you he did NOT want a baby and accused you of ruining his life!
Every baby deserves a stable home with a married father and mother. Do you love this baby enough to give it up to a good family?
Good for you for not getting an abortion!
2007-05-29 23:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't he have already known that you were going into labor on Friday? I would tell him especially since you two are living together. If he has been there for you throughout your pregnancy then he seems to be supportive of it. Just ask him if he wants to be there for when the baby is born. Good Luck!
2007-05-29 23:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by kevklosky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you're going to get a negative answer. You need to lay down the law to him. He doesn't want the baby? Tough. He can't make you get an abortion. He was the one that got you pregnant, and he's going to have to support HIS baby whether you two do it together or not.
2007-05-30 08:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by Orlando Rays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to tell him and maybe he isn't the best for you...your not ruining his life your being responsible and that's the best thing you can do...i think its great your bringing the baby in the world...and hopefully once its born he will understand why you brought it in...now i am not sure if your keeping it but congrats to you and i hope that it turns out great....and if i were you i would just tell him that Friday you will be in the hospital to have the baby and say you hope he can be there to support you.
good luck
2007-05-29 23:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by mommy to 3! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that you are going to have the baby because he will find out sooner or later but ask him why he feels like you are ruining his life. Ask him why he has been there for you through the whole pregnancy but still doesn't feel happy about your child. If he still feels like you are ruining his life, tell him that you didn't want to ruin your child's life.
2007-05-29 23:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all I wouldnt abort a baby for no one!!
Second of all he can either be their with you both or not!
He should know you are going in to the hospital on friday.
Remember in all realtionships and life in general,
Honesty is the best policy,even if sometimes we may not want to hear it!
If he has choosen to stick around even after all this time maybe once he see's the baby he will change his thinking.
However, either way if he does or doesn't it is no longer what either one of you want in life but it is now focused on this precious gift from God !!
Take care of that lil one. first!!!!
2007-05-29 23:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your baby has no fault in what he thinks it doesnt take 1 to make a baby you should tell him in a way he desirves to know
but let me tell you something when you see your baby you will fall in love with him/her and nothing is going to be more important then the baby not even your boyfriend
good luck with everything
i hope i helped you in a way
2007-05-29 23:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by AMIEE B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should spend some time thinking about it, you know, you sound pretty young and I think you should consider adoption as a posibility, but first talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you are going on Friday to the hospital and that you wish he would go with you, so you are not alone.
Think a lot and hope you choose the best option!!
2007-05-29 23:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by ami 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should absolutely tell him and ask him to be there. It is very important. I think if he does not want to be in the delivery room that is OK, and maybe a personal decision.
Good luck.
2007-05-29 23:31:16 · answer #10 · answered by Gatsby216 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋