I love to have fantasies about other women and i find myself look at lesbian porn. but i have a boyfriend and i love him.
2007-05-29 15:58:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Honestly Sweetie no one can answer this for you. Only you can figure this out. but I can give you a lil' advice. Think about it carefully before you go all out and proud. ASK. your self "Can I imagine myself making love to a female?" "Do I perfer Females over all males?" well if so you just might be a lesbian. but ALSO ASK your self "Do i mind a Males touch still?" "do i still love being with men as well." then you might be bi-sexual but just be cause you find women attractive doesn't mean your a full blown lesbian. To tell you truthfully I my self came out 6 years ago as a full blown lesbian. but as years past I ended meeting a wonderful man which i am now married to and have been with for two years now I still fancy Women. and i made sure he knew that before we got married. I have had plenty of relationships to say that i am Lesbian. But I consider my self bi sexual cause I am married to a wonderful man. So if your not sure just ask our self those questions. for all you know you just might have tendencies to be with women in fantasy only. Although i love being Bi and the sent of a women. I can't imagine my life without the touch of my man. well good luck with you decision
2007-05-29 17:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by yvonnah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are just that. If you have naughty dreams about another woman, it doesn't make you lesbian or bi. It just means you're having naughty dreams.
You love your boyfriend, go with that.
2007-05-30 01:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Threshin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i think that you are definetly bi-curious if nothing else. if you have these feelings you definetly need to try to find what you want in your "physical" life. i dont know how long you have been with your boyfriend but you are obviously wanting and needing more in your life. if you love him then maybe you should let him go before your body leads you in a direction that might hurt him later. i wish you the best.
2007-05-30 10:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by miss_a_beck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That doesn't mean that you are lesbian or bisexual. Maybe it means you appreciate the form of a naked woman. Women are beautiful creatures, not only men are allowed to feel that way about women.
2007-05-29 23:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by Boo Bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you sound just like me...lol. I am in the same situation. I concider myself bi-curious, but I have been able to tell only one person because my family is TOTALLY against same sex relationships. But you can't help what you like. So as long as it's not hurting anyone, enjoy what you do. I sounds like you are either bisexual or like me, bi-curious.
Good Luck
2007-05-30 09:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by blueyedangel71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not be a lesbian but you deff are curious and theres nothing wrong with that. maybe you should try and be with a girl and if you like it then you can consider yourself bisexual or bi curious
2007-05-30 02:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your like my mom's friend. She likes too look at lesbian porn but loves her husband. It's just who you are...you like what you like.
2007-05-29 23:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
SO DO I - and its perfectly normal. Your just curious, dont sweat it.
2007-05-30 01:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by itsnikkibaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
purhaps ur bi-curious? talk to your boyfriend about it.
2007-05-29 23:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by Puppet9481 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur probably bi.
2007-05-29 23:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by :D♥happy♥:D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋