Well...looks like I won't be enjoying any grandchildren.
Why would he do something to hurt me so much and why does he have to be sooooo selfish? doesn't he understand this?!?!
2007-05-29 15:47:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Politics
You are the one being selfish. You should try to be a better mother and show him you love him no matter what. He may be ashamed to have a mother who makes him feel like S%it.
2007-05-29 15:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by maggi r 4 · 10⤊ 4⤋
Don't be ashamed and don't be angry. He did not "do" this--to hurt you or otherwise. Gay people are born that way! It is not a "choice" that they make.
There is no reason to think that he will ever have HIV/AIDS. The disease is spread among gay and heterosexual people through unsafe sex, needle-sharing, and other unsafe exchanges of bodily fluids, most particularly blood. It is NOT a "gay disease".
Love him the way you always have. And why won't you be a grandmother? Gay people adopt. Single people adopt. Keep a positive attitude, and pray for guidance. You might want to consult a "counselor" of some sort to help you sort out your feelings. And, if your son is upset and/or confused, ask him to get counseling.
2007-05-29 16:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by Joey's Back 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe how short-sighted you are. Who's being selfish? What's more important, that he's honest with you and content in his life or that you have grandkids? I guess you'd rather he spend his life living a lie so he can have kids just for you and fit your mold of the Cleaver family. That way, he, his wife and his kids can be miserable.
That AIDS remark is way out of line. If I had a parent like you I'd end all contact.
2007-05-29 16:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by psatm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being ashamed.
Whoever told you that he's going to catch AIDS was lying to you. It's simply not true that all gays get AIDS.
You don't want him to live his own life or ever be happy and you call HIM selfish?
If you loved him, then his happiness and unhappiness would be important to you.
You don't know that you'll never have grandchildren. Maybe you'll rethink any opposition you had to gays raising kids.
He hasn't done anything to hurt you. He didn't chose his eye color to hurt you, either -- his eyes are just the color they are.
So your choice is to hurt him, and loose him, or to love him because he's your son.
Have you always done everything exactly the way your parents wanted you to do?
Was that selfish of you to live your own life?
2007-05-29 17:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-30 06:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lame, because it is 100% certain that you made this up because you wanted to bash gays, just like you have bashed arabs and blacks and others in various questions. Seriously, how do you have access to a computer? You are a threat to the progress of humanity, and should be locked up.
2007-05-29 17:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by qwerty 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is not about you! He isn't doing this to you! I don't think that he choose to be gay! You should try to understand him. He may never get AIDS! I have a cousin who is gay and he adopted two children! You can still be a grandma.
2007-05-29 16:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally am a very religious person but I do not believe that just because a person is "gay" they are wrong. Let your son be happy and live his life. There is nothing you can do now but continue to remind yourself that he is still YOUR son and you should love him no matter what he does. Just because he is gay does not mean he is going to get HIV/AIDS and die. Be supportive and love your son for who he is. Getting mad and disowning him could force him to commit suicide....that happened to a good friend of mine sadly.
Love him no matter what choices he makes in life...I hope this helped.
2007-05-29 15:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
Your sooooo mean u should love ur son no matter what and the only way he'd get AIDS is if you had it when u were pregnant with him.
2007-05-29 15:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by marissa d 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Troll Alert!
2007-05-29 15:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by gunplumber_462 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋