my hermit crab just died and i'm taking it really hard. i know that sounds really pathetic but he meant alot to me.
2007-05-29 15:16:07 · 7 answers · asked by pandacrazedgirl 3 in Pets ➔ Other - Pets
Hang in there. It really stinks when you loose something you really care about and nobody seems to understand. Nothing anyone can say can take your hurt away, it is natural. It will work itself through.
Good luck and sorry for your loss.
2007-05-29 15:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by ravenstarr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss! I take it really hard too, when i was younger i would cry when my, oh, 3000 goldfish died overnight..
Don't rush into things. If you feel you want another hermit crab, think a little. I'm sure that you would take just as good care of him, but try not to hold it against him that he's not like your other hermit crab. But then, don't deny yourself another hermit crab!
Again, I'm sooo sorry! I'm sure he loved you as much as you loved him!
2007-05-29 23:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Shiny_Stone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so soorryy 2 hear that but u need 2 get him out of ur mind try getting a new pet like a dog or cat oohhh oohhh i knoe how bout a fish!but remember that there will always be a special place in ur heart for this hermit crab!
2007-05-29 22:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by Pretty in Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister just lost her tortoise and she is a mess.
You have to move on but you will do it on your own terms and in your own time.
Cry, laugh, love. That's all there is.
It sounds like your pet was lucky to have you. All we can do is the best with what we have.
Remember he has crossed the rainbow bridge and is frolicking happily on a beach somewhere, probably terrorizing all my cats who have passed and all having a good time.
There is no pain and no age over the bridge, and if we are lucky, we will cross it and meet them on the other side.
And on to the back of the Valkyrie he climbed, to be taken on winged horseback to the Summerland.
Live greatly, love often, laugh constantly.
"There is no normal life, Wyatt, there is only life."
-Val Kilmer as Doc Holliday from 'Tombstone'
2007-05-29 22:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by cubcowboysgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember all things will die.
this is part of life.
I'm sure you took very good care of "him" so it's just something that happens sometimes getting another one or something else may make you feel better to have something to take care of. i'm not saying replace it as nothing can actually take it's place but it can fillthe whole that you probably have right now.
everyone greives in deifferent way and for the most part it's just time each one will be different.
2007-05-29 22:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by Kit_kat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, what i did (even though it was a Guinea pig), was we buried her and stuff. maybe go talk to someone like a good friend and tell them about ur crab, what u miss about hI'm/her and how much u enjoyed having it around... that helped me a little. im sorry about ur lose.
2007-05-29 22:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by Catdodat 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
then you should get a new one and see how you feel then
2007-05-29 22:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by sabrina p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋