My ex bf will not speak to me anymore. We had a big blowout and he was guilty...because I found out some things he never told me. Big things. But time has passed and I called him in tears that we can even remain friends...if he would talk to me. But no respond. What should I do?? I told him I was sorry but he did hurt me very much. Yet, I feel he has written me off for good. And I think he has am influence in his life that maybe making him more against me, because she wants to be with him. Please can someone give me advise. I cant go to his house...he lives 2 and 1/2 hours away, and besides..I dont want to look crazy.
2007-05-29 14:01:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I would let this one go and chalk it up to experience...some people don't want a friendship after a relationship and some people know when they have done wrong and feel it will be in their face every time they see you...everyone has faults...everyone is weak in one way or another...accept this and move on it will be the best
2007-05-29 14:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by Daisy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to just get over it. Before you get another boyfriend, try to find out why you feel that you must have one so bad that your are willing to be treated badly in order to keep him. This kind of behavior suggests very low self esteem and a sense that you do not feel that you are worth much, and you are wrong. Nobody should be treated badly and everyone has an inherent self-worth. So, get some self esteem and reestablish some feelings of self-worth. Don't make yourself a doormat.
2007-05-29 21:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by cavassi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned alot like i said about the mind. and most of all manipulation. Sweety why are you telling him you are sorry? What did you do wrong? (nothing) You have to realize first that it was he that did wrong He has to be the one who is saying he is sorry and he isn't is he i learned that once you love someone you don't really get over them until someone else takes their place, it's hard but you sound as i am you dwell on him and hold on to things and actually they are not good memories . you see he replaced you in a heart beat, its not good or nice but please start looking for someone you truely deserve your worth it
2007-05-29 21:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by whitemagnolia105@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's ok. if he didnt want to befriend u after what u have tried, so just let him go. maybe he cant be a good friend either. if it's not ur fault at the first place, why do u care? just forget abt him and start a fresh new episode of life. smile...=)
2007-05-29 21:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by iDea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone for now. Obviously he's feeling a bit embarrassed because he was found out! Give it a month. If he comes back give it another try,. If not move on!
2007-05-29 21:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by JESSICA G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP! and catch your breath. If he is at fault for your break-up then you need to step back and let it go. If you go chasing him you will look crazy. If you don't talk to him or chase after him you will keep control over your relationship.
He will come back. You should consider if you really want him back.
2007-05-29 21:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by Big Red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it and start looking for a new man after couple of months.
2007-05-29 21:06:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋