I really dread approaching other guys. Most gay guys dread approaching other guys actually. We always wonder in our head whether he is or isn't gay, ahhh!
I've been single my entire life now and I'm really tired of it.
How do you guys do it? How do you have to courage to approach other guys? Help me!
2007-05-29 13:18:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well-You find courage like that in a bottle of Jim Beam............Nah,I am just kidding! Well-I don't know if I would approach someone if I wasn't sure of their sexual prefrence. If I did know,it would at least be easier. Hang out with them and get to know them first. Just ask them if they wanna hang out at your place and watch movies or something. A lot of people also go to gay clubs-that way it's mostly gay people. Just be careful-their are some CRAZY people out there. I hope you find someone special and you will sooner or later. Good luck!
2007-05-29 15:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out w/a nice smile. Find out what his interests are: music, movies, sports, where does he like to go/do. Just start a conversation & go from there. You'll soon know if there's any interest. Also, if you have anything in common build on that topic of conversation. Good luck...it's easier than you think.
2016-05-21 06:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Andy,
Be yourself and don't try to be someone else.
Get involved with your LGBT community.
June is usually "Pridefest" month in many big cities. Attend the one nearest you and talk to some of the vendor and organizations.
12 years ago I went to my first one and haven't missed one since.
Get involved is the bottom line.
Been there & done that!
Stay safe and know we're all here to give support.
Check the 2 websites I've listed below.
Open your Profile page and I'll email you.
2007-05-29 14:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Robert W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're right you know. Don't wait to be asked out by "Prince Charming", it won't happen! Go to a Gay club and find him!
Keep trying and trying and trying....just like the Energizer Bunny!
Best wishes and happy hunting.
-Vinny
2007-05-30 06:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a gay bar, Andy. Then there is no question.
Meanwhile, I just look at them say:
"Can I buy you breakfast?"
and conclude with:
"Should I call you, or just nudge ya, in the mornin'?"
2007-05-29 13:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. There is nothing more you can do than just that. Be friendly and respect the person.
2007-05-29 13:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see your problem, But the only thing that is stopping you is you. Your preference in sexual partners, Should not stop you from doing what ever it is that pleases you. if it does you need to build up your self confidence and do as you please period............................
2007-05-29 13:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋