Hi my name is massiel nice to meat all of u my question is,i have a beautiful 4 year old girl and just had a beautiful 3 month old girl i choose not to get my depo shot cause i want to have a nother and last child is it a good idea and how long will it take me to get pregnant if any one can answer me it will mean a lot thank you have a beautiful day
2007-05-29 12:47:58 · 9 answers · asked by mommy of 2 girls & 1 newborn boy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It's up to you when you want to start trying again for another child.
I think it would be really hard to have 2 babies in diapers at the same time, so maybe wait another year before trying again. That way you can give more attention to your 3 month-old. It will also give your body a chance to heal and bounce back after giving birth.
2007-05-29 12:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My daughter was 4 years old also when I had my son, he is now 2. I didn't want to have any more kids because my husband and I already had 4 all together. He has 2 kids of his own. But right before my son turned 2 I got this feeling that I really wanted one more. I was on birth control at the time so we had to wait, but 6 months later I got pregnant. I'm now 14 weeks pregnant. If you are ready and your husband is too I say go for it. I personally love having a big family even though my other family members don't really agree, but they are not the ones raising my kids. I actually want to have more but my husband says no more! But good luck!
2007-05-29 19:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Not your average mom 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you think your ready for another child, then go for it. But whats the hurry, dont you want to enjoy your 3 month old a bit more before your attention is on a newborn again.
As far as how long to get pregnant, everyone is different it depends on the individual person, and you will probably find that it may or may not happen as quick as your other 2.
Good luck
2007-05-29 19:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
HELLO, I JUST WANT TO SAY CONGRATS ON YOUR NEW BABY AND THAT I THINK U SHOULD WAIT ONLY BECOUSE I HAVE AN 11 MONTH OLD NOW AND GOT PG AGAIN WEN HE WAS 3 MONTHS AND IM DEW ANY DAY NOW AND IT REALLY DOES A TOLL ON YOUR BODY, YOU GET REALLY TIRED AND WORN OUT AND YOUR BODY HURTS ALOT MORE BECOUSE YOUR BODYS NOT HEALD FROM HAVING THE LAST BABY. I WOULD JUST WAIT A FEW MORE MONTHS. GIVE YOUR SELF TIME TO SPOIL YOUR 3 MONTH OLD. JUST SOME ADVICE.. GOOD LUCK
2007-05-29 19:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
check with your PARTNER to make sure its cool with him.
check with ur doc to make sure ur ok medically,
id give yourself a few more mos to make sure ur son is not going to be too much of a handful while ur pregnant.
but if you feel u can handle it GO AHEAD. you dont HAVE to wait.
2007-05-29 19:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by jean grey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to wait a year for you body to heal. and give you 3 month old a chance to have some love to.
2007-05-29 19:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa s 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
wait another year, give your 2nd baby a chance to get all your attention before you have #3.
2007-05-29 19:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by parental unit 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
well, considering you just had a baby 3 months ago, you are probably very fertile! you might already be pregnant!
good luck to you!
God bless.
2007-05-29 19:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
It's up to you
2007-05-29 19:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋