my sister has a rule and i want to know?

Question

if you think she is right, she says i cant go out with any of her gfs, beleving it might hurt there friendship if things dont go out between me and one of her friends, just want to know how you all feel about this.

Answer 1

Yeah, stay away from your siblings friends if you can help it.... unless its some romeo and juliet style attraction, i would look for girls elsewhere. Out of respect for your sister and the situation you might be putting her into.

Answer 2

*Well this one can be debated both ways....because she does have a point, and you dating one or more of her friends could cause a mess in their friendship(s). No joke.

.But then again, it is your life, and you are free to date whoever you please.

.I think however that it boils down to more of a matter of simple respect of your sisters wishes not to date her friend(s). I mean there is no laws stating that you cannot date your sisters friends......you can if you really wanted to.

.I also think that you would be better off not dating any of them though, because I do agree with your sister on that one. And if you end up hurting one of her friends feelings or something happens and you two break up, then that girl is going to get all pissy with your sister, and then you'll hear about all the dramatics EVERYDAY after.......Ugh.....yeah I don't think it's worth it personally.!.

.It's up to you though, I mean like I said the answer to this question can go both ways. It's just a matter of respecting your sisters wishes enough not to follow through with it.

.....choose wisely.
....and ponder the consequences.

Answer 3

WELL that can be tough!!! My brother went out with my best friend! And we are still best friends if not even closer! We both are now married her not to my brother! IT really depends of the friend ship. Mine and her made it! Cause really no man would tear our friendship apart ! But also think this way if your sister doesn't want you dating her friend, she will be giving negative vibes out it might not let your dating relationship going anywhere? you know?

Answer 4

It is one of the best ways there is to meet someone. What if the special girl you could one day marry and be happy with, you met her because she was a friend of your sister? Would you listen to your sister and not date her? Grow a set!! They call men like that terrible names!!!

Answer 5

Don't go out with your sisters friends, because first of all it may jeopardize her friendship with them, and because girls always tell their friends everything about their latest crush/boyfriend, and how awkward would it be for your sister to hear her friend go on and about that. Seriously, there should be some law about going out with your siblings friends. If my brother ever went out with one of my friends I would beat both my brother and my friend.

Answer 6

I think it would be hard on you going out with one of your sister's friends. And it may be a smart idea not to. However your sister cannot dictate whom you go out with.

Answer 7

there's the letter of the law and the spirit of the law.....i'd follow the letter of the law with this one...she said you can't go out with any of her friends...fine...don't date them...just have sex with them when your sister is not around or awake.

Answer 8

i got a sister and i did the same thing, this is a valuable opportunity, don't miss it. but if things don't go well with the girl(s) DON'T DISRESPECT THEM!!!!

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DON'T!!

Answer 9

I agree with your sister, sorry

Answer 10

srry but i agree with your sister sometimes that stuff can be weird!!!