OK, she knew he was married, and when i first found out, I gave her h*ll. What did she expect, for me to be nice about it? I never physically thretened her, for that wont change the fact that it happened, and will only wind me up in jail. But she later has her friend call me and threatens physical violence. I'm 32 and maybe I'm a bit out of the game, shes 21, but whats up with the threat of physcial violence? If i wanted to be that childish about it, I think I have more right to beat her a** then she does mine, afterall, it is her that f*cked my husband, not the other way around. So whats up with the threat of violence? And whats the best way to deal with that?
2007-05-29 10:23:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Book time on the Jerry Springer show
2007-05-29 10:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by Shelly 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she is threatening you I would print out any proof that I have and document any threats. Go to the police and get a restraning order on her a**.
Do anything you can to get her a** thrown in jail. Tell them you are afraid for your life etc. Maybe if she does time she will think twice about being a ho going after another womens husband. I would personally like to kick her a** but that will only get you in trouble. She's not worth it.
2007-05-29 18:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was married fo r10 years to the same jerk, and I am 32 also. I got married at 17. He slept with my 2 cousins and a friend. I'm sure there were more, when I found out about the one cousin and told her not to come back around my home, she got furious like I owed her something. Then her dad wanted to know what I was going on about and I told him then he stayed out of it. She actually got pregant and came by my house so I could see the baby, my babysitter was there and told her to leave before I got home. She came back later with an attitude and we got into a physical confrontation, started by her. Well they carted her off to jail and I got rid of my husband as soon as I could get him out of the house. There no way to reason with "homewrecking whores", there all over the place and they want everyone elses men. The best thing to do is get rid of the guy, because they don't just cheat one time and stop, and you can bet there has been other times or will be other to come. These kind of women will cause problems for everyone involved. A friend of mines hubby was cheating on her with a blonde tramp and I found out about and kept my mouth shut for as long as I could because her hubby and my current one are best friends. One nite I had enough because the wife showed up unannounced and the tramp ran and hid in "my car". So I told the wife right then and there that there was something in my backseat she needed to see. They divorced and the tramp moved in with him, and it has been a fight ever since. She got what she wanted but still harrasses me at every twist and turn. So if you don't get rid of him this will continue on and on. And most of all beware of these type of women, I have no respect for "homewreckers". There are plenty of single men out there, they are just too lazy to get off their backs, close their legs and do the right thing. Then they want to fight, threaten and carry on and it will not end, get rid of him and you get rid of her, HOPEFULLY!!!! Something else to think about, age has nothing to do with it. Women in their 30's and 40's do the same, their just a little smarter about it. The woman I was just talking about is now 43 and has broken up 4 homes. My cousins were both in their mid 20's and the friend, early 30's. So age isn't an issue, a tramp is a tramp and a homewrecker is the same, they don't change or get any better.
2007-05-29 10:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by KricketP 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If necessary beat her A** if she continues to threaten you, or better yet call the police and get her arrested. Last but not least leave your husband immediately if not sooner. It's not going to work with you and your husband he invited someone else into the marriage to make you feel like you were not enough to keep him happy, and this other woman is going to interrupt your life because of her insecurity (how sad). Good luck and you desire so much better.
2007-05-29 10:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by whocarez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be so angry with my husband for putting this on me that i would shove this little idiot right up his azzz. I would get an exparte against her and file harrassement charges! Also have your phone number changed and have it unlisted. This girl is missing the middle of her oreo cookie sweetie and it sounds like a fatal attraction. I hope that you and your husband are in marriage counseling to see why your husband got involved with a 21 year old woman. What was he thinking? He betrayed you and destroyed your trust and has no respect for you! Do not put up with this you do not deserve to be treated this way. Dump him and find somebody that can be right to you. best wishes sweetie.
2007-05-29 12:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The ignorance of youth. What did you expect from a 21 yr old.If shes stupid enough to get involved with a married man then theres no telling what else she may do.Just take this from the source. Shes just a kid with a lot of growing upto do.
2007-05-29 10:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding! Your 32 and your acting like a teenager! Why do you want to attack this broad, your husband cheated on you, NOT HER!
She isn't married. She doesn't have to respect you and he obviously taught her not to.
How is he involved in this immature "cat fight" with you and the broad he had sex with! He caused the whole thing. What if you did confront her and beat the hell out of her. Would you feel like the winner here?
All you should be thinking about is your marriage. Put her on some other planet and confront HIM! This is between you and him and if that is the way your so-called husband is treating you, you should put him on some other planet too.
2007-05-29 10:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Where is your husband in all this? In a bar, maybe looking for another psychotic playmate?
Forget her, and if she continues with the threats, call the police and press charges.
While you do this, I suggest you find a lawyer and file for divorce.
2007-05-29 11:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's immature and that's what little immature girls do; threaten to beat you up or something equally silly.
You can just ignore her or get a restraining order against her based on her threats.
2007-05-29 10:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by eunosgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all let me just say this your issue is not with this woman but with your man. What I fail to realize is how and why woman want to attack the other woamn when all along you should check your husband. Now as far as the violence part well that comes with the territory you said yourself you gave her hell so is she supposed to sit back and play the victim or defend herself. Also You failed to mention your husband in your question, sounds like to me you also need to grow up.
2007-05-29 10:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by KH 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
See if you can file a complaint with the police.
And try to stay away from her cuz you might lose control one day and choke her to death and you will be the one in jail.
2007-05-29 10:30:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋