Okay... Im a hyper person and I love to have fun. Im just an average kid. Not popular, not nerdy. But I am kinda flirty. I dont usually talk much to people outside of my lil group of friends (which is pretty diverse) simply b/c it's outta my comfort zone, and Im not good at it. I recently found out that alot of people dont like me, b/c they think im stuck up, and think im all that. Im not even popular, and I dont wanna be! I would nt normally say hi to sombody outside my lil group, b/c either I think theyre mean, or theyre too popular and would blow me off. Why do people think this about me, and how do I change? Im not mean to people!
2007-05-29 09:40:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Explain that your not stuck up, your just shy around people you don't know, or havn't hung around with much.
2007-05-29 09:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by prepishippie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ppl think ur stuck up b/c u dont say hi to others that arent in ur group. they take this as arrogance. they think that u think ur better than them and 2 good for them. they think that because u dont say hi to 2 them or acknowledge them or w/e, that they arent worth ur time. trust me, if u know ur not, and they arent in ur comfort zone, ur not stuckup ur just kinda shy or intimidated i guess. i kinda sorta used 2 be in that situation.
it was like me and my 4 other friends dominated our whole grade (only 35 kids in the class cuz it was a private school, junior kinder - 8th grade). they called us the popular group cuz we hung out with the boys and went off on our own.
ur kinda of an example, u think that the "popular kids" are 2 popular and will blow u off. they probably think that u think theyre stuck up. and the kids that think ur stuck up, just think that u will blow them off 2.....
so forget them, the only reason for someone 2 hate u iz because theyre juss plain jealous
2007-05-29 17:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by ilovesoccer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very good question. Not only you most people face the same difficulty and the only way to solve it by changing their way of thinking, changing their attitude towards other.
It is said, "We are what we think". Just started thinking that all those who hates you by any reason they started loving you in all aspects. Let them do what they do just you think good about them and you will see their attitude towards you will be changed.
I am sure you will think like others "HOW"? In short it is our thought which play a key role in our life. If we keep our thought nicer, clearer and better we fill get the same result.
You do not need to go to them and say, I am not mean. Think in your mind and tell them by your thought. Do it for few days and see the result.
nihon94@yahoo.com
2007-05-29 22:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by Ari 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let "those people" deal with that. You sound happy with the way things are.When you decide to venture from your comfort zone you will.Until then respect yourself and others and "Be Happy"
2007-05-29 16:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by Northern Belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say hi to poeple they dont know you probaly but let them get to know you and then theyll understand.. good luck
2007-05-29 16:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by miss confussed!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be the nicest u can and be more shareful and they will be your friend
2007-05-29 16:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by spike e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋