we got recently married. my wife resigned her job after marriage and she told me that she is resgining and wants to start a family and doesnt want to work. my wife has been maintaining contacts with her male colleagues at office. during browsing i stumbled upon an email id. (My wife says that she uses her former male colleague's email to chat with him now). But in our last few months, i didn't notice any change in her behaviour towards me and she is very good and caring towards me. Except occasionally she cribs about how away we are from our individual families and friends.
Should i take this seriously?
2007-05-29 09:26:28 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes as a sign that you need to put more into the marriage. she is lonely and that is not a good thing. The idle mind IS the workshop of the devil and inccubator for all sorts of mischief. I am not saying anything is going on aside from her looking for company and companionship
Why don't you make the effort to get family and friends together more often so that she feels like she is still in touch. Tell her that she needs also to look inot some absorbing hobby or take a parenting class something to give her something in her life.It is a good thing because one thing she needs to avoid is having nothing in her life but her children that is not good for her not good for the babies and not good for the marriage. Perhaps she should have kept her job until she was actually pregnant. Maybe she could get it back or get another job until that time. She has nothing to do with her days and she is bored and lonely. Help solve those problems before some other solution comes along.
2007-05-29 09:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused as to what your wife is doing but regardless you need to be talking to her, not us. Quiting work and being far from family and friends can be a little daunting at first. Find out what is up with her and then try to help her through the changes.
2007-05-29 16:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw, I wouldn't make too much out of that. Why don't you create a new Yahoo! e-mail address for her so that she has her own? If you find her subsequently using the male colleague's e-mail instead of her own new one, definitely do not start a family with her.
2007-05-29 16:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like boredom... You should be concerned about how well she manages all the time she got on her hands...
2007-05-29 16:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by ajoyce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not really sure what you're saying. But confornt her about it. Maybe she's pregnant?
2007-05-29 16:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by tragjasi@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You & she should talk. Ask her if she's unhappy with your marriage and if so, why? Try to work it out.
2007-05-29 16:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋