Is 18 too young to have a baby?

Answer 1

Physically, no, you're plenty old enough.

Mentally - is this what you really want? A child isn't something you can get return to sender - you're stuck for another 18 years once you do this.

Do you want to go out partying with your friends and having a good time? If so, are your parents going to look after junior every Saturday night?

Do you want to travel and see the world? Most of the couples I saw touring Europe didn't have children with them. Yes, you can go to Disneyland, but only one of you at a time can ride the rollercoasters.

How sure are you that your significant other is "the one"? It probably wouldn't hurt to live together for a few years first, be sure you are compatible before you get that strongly committed. Could he make enough for child support payments if you split up?There's a strong undercurrent of resentment in society for women who decide to have a child and then expect all the handouts from society to help pay for that kid.

Does your partner have good job prospects? Where are you planning to live, how will you pay for food, clothes, and living space for 3 people? Unless you're a dead-end minimum wage loser, you both probably have a few more years education to go. Yes, you can do college with a child, but it's a lot easier without one.

You've still got 25 years before you can't have kids - there's no hurry. At 30, then maybe it's time to say " I should think about having a child real soon..."

Having a baby is the easy part (...says a guy who doesn't have to go through labour.) It's the next 18 years that's tough.

Answer 2

This is a yes and no answer. At 18, you body is still developing ang you still want do things such as parties and hanging out late. But it is a good time because you eggs are healthier and right before its peak meaning you child will come out full of energy. But what about college and college parties. Do that first. After you get an associate's degree at least in something so your not struggling for money and everything while being pregnant and after the baby is born. I didn't plan. I had mine at 15 turning 16 and i am in college now with a 4 year old and its pretty hard when u have no body really there to help. its just me and my son, no baby father and minimal family help. Waiting is the best policy.

Answer 3

Yes, for most people. I would advise against having a baby so young because I imagine it would be hard to have a stable, good paying job with good benefits so young. Of course, not impossible, but hard because most 18 year olds haven't completed any college and don't have a ton of work experience.

Also, I know I wasn't ready to be home every evening with a baby to take care of. I wanted to go out with my friends and do young adult stuff, stay out late and spend my money on myself, not childcare. I'm still in my early 20's and can't imagine having that kind of responsibility!

Of course some 18 year olds can handle a baby, but I don't think I'd go try for one so young.

Answer 4

At the age of 18, some are responsible and mature enough to raise a child but others are not. it all depends on the person and the situation. If you are ready then i say go for it but dont rush it if there is any question in your mind about wether you can raise a child or not. Do aome research on cost of raising a child and everything to do with raising a child. if you still feel like you are ready then good luck. remember that you have time so dont rush into anything.

Answer 5

Depends on the maturity level of the parents. Some 30 year olds aren't "old" enough to handle kids. I like to think a little college never hurt anyone, and the opportunity to experience different things never hurt anyone........ so while it isn't too young, I'd be inclined to say waiting (and living a little) may be good for both baby and the parents.

Answer 6

Depends on the person...I had my baby at 18 however my husband and I were employed and had wonderful insurance and a very supportive family and a nice home , I am now 27 and am still very happily married to the same man and I have a wonderful 8 year old son.

Answer 7

You're probably going to get a lot of negative feedback for asking this question...I'm a 19 year old single parent. My daughter's 18 months old. Her dad's not involved in her life at all. I like it that way.

If you're asking this, then you're probably not ready. It takes a lot of money and time to have and take care of a baby. If you are honestly thinking about having a baby, go to your local dfcs office and see if they have those baby simulators. Take one home. See how you like that. If you can handle that, then you can handle taking care of a real one. But make sure you're financially capable..


By the way, those of you talking about college, you can be a parent and still go to college. It's not the 60's. There are even scholarships and grants for single mothers.

Answer 8

If you have someone that is helping you out.... not your parents a husband or someone that you can see living with for the rest of your life.... yes. if you can't see that or don't have a stable life,,, then no. I don't think it is about your age.... i think it is about your maturity. Some of the youngest people are parents, and that doesn't make them any less parents than anyone one else.

I am not sure that anyone is really ready to be a parent, but when put in the situation you can fulfill the job, if you are willing to. And that's what it comes down to... if you can do it or not. it's a lot of work.... but one of the best things that will ever happen to you.

Hope that helps you out a little.

Answer 9

Yes i think so im 21.And i couldnt imagine havig a baby right now im just not going through the turns and bends in life to make SOMETHING for myself let alone for a baby which is A great DEAL of your time ur not gonna have to better your life or the babys.Just my opinion but i still want a baby...just not today :)

Answer 10

Yes! but my friend knew someone who was is 6th grade that had a baby thats young! but 18 is ok to have a baby but being maried and having a kid is better