I saw a guy wearing these leather sandals the other day that I liked and wanted to ask but was too ashamed too. Have you ever asked another guy where he got them from? How would you react if someone asked you?
2007-05-29 07:33:34 · 10 answers · asked by Kenneth 4 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Yeah, I would. Not sure I would ask a stranger though. I would definately as a co-worker or friend.
2007-05-29 07:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by Moderates Unite! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I see something I like, I ask about it - man, woman, or child.
Sometimes if you ask a teenager you get a strange look, but I just say " My son/daughter has been looking for them! Where did you find them? "
Everyone always tells me, so I must be doing it right.
Oh, don't forget to include a compliment - "That color looks great on you/I really like those shoes/nice haircut" etc.
Like everything else, this gets easier the more you do it.
2007-05-29 07:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 01:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would. I have been asked like that, but no with my sandals, just sneakers and dress shoes. with my sandals sometimes guys and gals stare a bit but they don't ask.
2007-05-31 11:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem with that... but then again, I live in NYC where even the straight guys keep up to date on fashion.
2007-05-29 08:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by gopher646 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard one but not shoes. I heard one of my classmate asking where my other classmate, got his burberry shawl. It's kinda funny cause you wouldn't expect guys to check fashion or shawl.
2007-05-29 07:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this is a problem, if he's a stranger oh well what he thinks... I might compliment him and ask where he got them... no big deal.
2007-05-29 07:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by nickelback726 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would.i would say nice shoe man,what kind are they & where did you get them.whats the worst can happen,him ignoring you
2007-06-02 00:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by mtf1120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I heard a guy do that I would think he's gay. Not thatthere is anything wrong with that.
2007-05-29 07:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by SvetlanaFunGirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why should this be a problem ...
It is only flattering , no ?
2007-05-29 08:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by Henri S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋