everytime i get involved with some1 my best friend is constantly rude to me. she likes to go out and i dont as much, but when i dont have a bf its not an issue, but when i do she blames the fact that i have one as to why i dont go out. she also says im not there for her but she doesnt even call me when she needs me. i just feel like she brings me down every time i hang with her bc she has all these vanity issues. i care about her, bc she has been there for me in the past (friends since 10, now 22), but for the last year and a half she has just been aggresive and mean to me. she picks on me and belittles me and the choices i make in my life and it really hurts me. i was supposed to meet up with her and another friend the other night after i went on a date with my bf and she fought with me bc i wasnt thrilled about where i was supposed to meet her and started calling me a bad friend...regardless i tried meeting up with them and she ditched me and wont answer my calls, texts, or ims. wtf?
2007-05-29 06:59:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is no friend. This is a queen bee. She likes having you around but isn't supportive of you - she may be jealous that you can get a boyfriend and she can't.
Whatever the reason, as long as you're miserable, she's happy. Is this what you call a friend? I don't.
Make new friends and cool it with Queen Bee. She needs to grow up.
Just find other people to be with - ignore her calls/txts etc. and when she speaks with you about it - tell the truth - that whenever you're happy she is mean. Whenever you're sad, she's happy. That's not being a friend.
2007-05-29 07:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes jelous. Or she doesnt wanna loose you as a friend but isnt showing it cause she wants to hide it.
2007-05-29 07:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by alecsim1993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋