2007-05-29 06:51:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Most definitely
2007-05-29 06:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, in the end, it's all up to you to tell them. If it were me, I'd make absolutely sure I was Bisexual before I told them. You dont want to startle them with something that may not be true. So make sure first. Find a girl and a guy who are willing to kiss you, and if you like both kisses, you're bi. Give it some real thought, and if you find that you are then if you can trust that your parents wont freak out on you, tell them. ^^
2007-05-29 07:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your parents when you are sure. When I was in 10th grade I was bi, then in 11th grade I was a full on lesbian. I didn't tell my mom until I was in 12th grade and that was when I felt the time was right. When the moment comes, you'll know when to tell them.
Plus it depends if your parents are ok with gay people, if they're not, then maybe you should wait until you move out. My mom is fine with gay people so it made it a little easier. She didn't kick me out or anything, she was just in denial. She still is, but she is more accepting than when I first told her.
I wish you good luck and like I said, you'll know if or when you will tell them.
2007-05-29 06:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by colorfulsunrise514 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now your hormones are going crazy, I suggest you wait until you are a little older to tell your parents. Many girls find other girls attractive, they can appriciate the beauty of the female form, but that doesn't make them bi or gay.
But understand that if you are bi or gay that there is nothing wrong with how you feel, just make sure you aren't doing it to be cool.
2007-05-29 06:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That ultimately has to be your decision but here is something to think about. My daughter came to me (I'm her dad) and told me she was bi. She figured I would freak out on her. She was wrong. It actually shocked her that I was totally ok with it. What was really strange about this was that a while later, we were talking about thing and I ended up telling here that I was transgendetred and bi myself. You never know what you may end up with from them as a reaction.
2007-06-01 22:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by mts_online 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CK,
Do your parents believe in this type of behavior? Whay do you believe you are Bi-sexual? Is it because of what someone has told you?
I think you are like many young women your age considering this agenda that we are "sexual beings verses intelectual beings."
CK, God made you a woman, you are simular to men, in thought and dreams, but you are female for the purpose God created you to be. Intelectually you can think any thought I can, but only you can give birth to a child. That is a special gift, and you should not be discounted as a woman for sexual pleasure or gratification.
14 CK FOURTEEN YEARS, I am 47, I know men and women my age that still don't want to admit what they are, cause the sex is so good.
CK talk to your parents, I pray that they like me will teach you that you are a woman, not bi-sexual, or homosexual, but a woman made for man. That likewise somewhere there is a man made for you. In the confines of a marriage you will be allowed the special gift of sex with your husband, and that you should not become involved with it before then in anyway shape or form.
CK it is not impossible to avoid it, you can resist it, seek God and he will help you, and trust your parents to love and help you as well. They may not understand it at first, but if you ask God to show you haw to share this He will ,and They will recieve it. If that seems weird then like my daughter used to call them get with the "Holly Rollers" or Christians at school and have them help you to come up with a plan to deal with this and to include your parents in it.
May the God of all Creation, The Lord that Created you
Bless you and keep you in purity
al 4 now B
2007-05-29 07:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by ImJstBob 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Probably not - they might not like it very much. Besides, if you only think you might be bi, that doesn't mean that you are. Don't tell them, at least not until after you are out of the house and know for sure.
2007-05-29 06:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I told my parents anything at age 14. They didn't even know I was vegetarian until I was 18!
2007-05-29 09:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by rob1977nc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to them about it- especially your mom since she can probably help guide you through your feelings.
You are very young still though, so just tell them how you're confused, right now- I'm sure they'll understand.
I'm a parent and my child came to me with this and we had a good talk- so I know about this.
2007-05-29 07:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Lynnette_is_a_Lovely_Latina! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably a faze, plus you would have to be a 100% sure about it before you start telling people. Give it some time, you are so young.
2007-05-29 07:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure u are bi first cuz it would be foolish to confess and it turns out that u were wrong...
2007-05-29 06:56:15 · answer #11 · answered by Opera Phantom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋