One of my girl-friend's ex boyfriend is really troublesome, he has a lot of problems at home, and he is even a little bit aggressive sometimes, but deep inside he's a good guy with a bouch of problems.
Last summer my friend dumped him because he will have problems and then go and fight with my friend, who by the way is really happy and nice to everyone [seriously, even the ex-boyfriend admits it] So all the problems came from him and his family, so she broke up. Now i'm having classes with him [my friend's ex] and he suddenly sees me as his sister or something and he gets really attached, telling me all his problems and calling me his best friend and his older sister. I don't know what to do, i try to help him, but he is really stubbern, and sometimes when i talk to him he gets irritated and a little bit aggressive. I'm a little bit afraid, because he also has dependence problems and he tried to kill himself like 2 times, so if i tell him to go away he might try to do it again...
2007-05-29 05:48:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well If I were you...I'd just pray about it and hand it all to God.Because sometimes, the words/advices we give might not be the right thing.
Note:If you guys who aren't a Christian or anything and you got offended by my answer just please don't give me a thumbs down...
2007-05-29 06:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by e-gurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Space yourself from him. It seems like you need to find other things to do and other people to be around other than this guy. Make yourself too busy to have time for him and hopefully he will find someone else to clutch on to. You should not be weak about this if you are yes you are going to have problems along with him.
2007-05-29 05:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by ejohnjr34 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, and believe me when I say I'm speaking from experience.. if he tried to kill himself it is NOT BECAUSE OF YOU.. and it is NOT YOUR FAULT. Be honest with him.. this is a large part of the reason he trusts you anyway.. it will piss him off but he will respect you and your boundaries a little more... it's ok to help other people.. but you have to put yourself first or you will lose track of who you are...
2007-05-29 05:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by pip 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the answer is obvious.....SYMPATHY LAY
2007-05-29 05:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋