I remember a few times in college girls would comment about my not wearing a bra most of the time. I'm only a 34B and I don't think it's necessary for support or comfort since I'm much more comfortable not wearing a bra. I don't know what the big deal is! It's not as if my breasts were flopping or sagging all over the place, although I do have perky nipples. Is that the problem or are they just jealous?
2007-05-29 02:00:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
No, it doesn't bother me even if another woman wants to hang around naked. I'm very comfortable with my body, so other people's bodies don't bother me.
2007-05-29 02:21:46 · update #1
This is probably because girls don't see it as hot or attractive when other girls do that kind of thing. If they are the kind of women who do wear bras, they might think of it as trashy or inappropriate. I personally think it's crap, but that's the way some women's mind works. Don't let it bother you, the guys probably enjoy it. :]
2007-05-29 02:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know, I used to think the same way (funny thing, my bra size is the same!) but for me it was pretty much just a phase to go braless. I don't really look down on anyone who goes braless, but I think it's maybe a little more respectful to wear one if you don't know for sure that someone won't get offended (and in public, really, how would you possibly know that?)
Of course, if you're the kind of person who just plain old doesn't give a hoot what other people think, more power to you, that's the American way. But I'm beginning to think a little respect goes a long way.
Plus, even if you don't think that it's necessary for support, you will in a few years. You don't have to have huge, swelling knockers for them to sag eventually.
2007-05-29 02:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by Viki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have nice breasts don't worry about it and be happy that you don't have to wear a bra to keep your breasts from sagging. Some women are just catty and rude so don't take it personally. If it's not your perky breast/nipples then it will be something else that they will comment on. It's just sad in my opinion. Anyway, enjoy being bra less! As long as it's not a see through, paper thin, tiny white shirt then it's fine.
A few of my friends have very erect nips that show through their shirt even when they wear a bra! Some things you just can't or shouldn't fight .
2007-05-29 02:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
It's probably a little of both, us girls you know how we are! Do you not care if you and your man are hanging out with some friends and one of the girls **** are hanging out, or her skirt was so short you could almost see her stuff? Would that really not bother you at all? I guess I am one of those jealous girls, cuz it would piss me off. Your nipples do not need to be seen by everyone!!
2007-05-29 02:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old you are now, but it's best to wear a bra. If you want to keep them perky, support is very important!
I think it's fine at the lake, etc, but I don't like it because I think it just looks trashy to see a woman without a bra. It's not jealousy on my part. A woman not wearing a bra looks just as bad as guys you see in shorts and can tell they aren't wearing underwear. Gag!!
2007-05-29 02:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
because of the fact that's slutty. the only reason a girl could desire to bypass braless is that if the shirt quite does not enable for it. like that's backless or some thing. or maybe then she could desire to placed on pasties. This suitable supplies her no reason to not placed on a bra different than that she desires to show her **** off.
2016-12-30 05:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey not to be rude but you always need to wear a bra unless you know the other people are comfortable....Really, it is because of the nipples, unless the other girl is bi no girl wants to see another girls nipples really they dont, some may just sy whatever it doesnt really matter but they still dont want to see them...And its not they they are constanly looking its because when you see something sticking out of a shirt really you are going to look....If you dont feel comfotable get a well fitted sports bra that is thick or buy tank tops with the bra with them....Something sweetie....Unless you want people complaning ALL THE TIME....But like always Good Luck and God Bless!!
2007-05-29 02:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by Christina M 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
it is the flopping sagging thing for me. It looks very frumpy and trashy to have the girls sagging down. And you probably would be OK with a 34B. It is anybody who's larger than that which is bad.
2007-05-29 08:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa H 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls are caddy when it comes to other girls. Seems like girls do certain things with their looks, more to impress other girls, then they do for guys. When it comes to little things like hair, nails and slight make up - guys dont even notice a difference half the time. Girls pick up on it immediately. So i firmly believe when a girl does those little things, its more a way to not hear the caddiness from other girls then it is to impress guys.
You never hear a guy complaining about a girl not wearing a bra. But girls like to pick up little things about other girls. It's weird. And silly. Do what makes you feel good and who cares what other girls think.
2007-05-29 02:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by wolfatthedoor 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it's either they're really jealous or bc your getting a lot of attention from men. But some people including men gets distrub by the erected nipple. it's like a man walking around with his lower regional area erected. Now wouldnt u be distrub seeing that?
2007-05-29 02:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by Honest Answers™ 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋