It depends... If you're gay, tell them. If you have a fettish for animals, DON'T tell them. If you eat grass, tell them. If you killed someone, don't tell them (and get professional help).
It all depends on how much you value their opinion and how much what your hiding will affect them.
2007-05-29 01:55:24
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answered by Anonymous
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which elders .... elders of "your own kind"..? or elders like parents and family...?
IF the elders are of your own kind, I would follow their advice... they may have run into more than they could take ... and do not want you hurt...
I have many things I do not care to reveal .... I just don't want people into my business ... people can be very cruel and the less fuel for the fire you offer them, the better ... if you can hide something that is out and out controversial, why not? You need to protect yourself in this world ... your private life is called that for a reason: it is private.
Best
2007-05-31 10:28:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, YOU DO NOT MENTION What YOU ARE HIDING, But what-ever it is, obiously it is bothering you! So I Suggest you must know , that you " can- not " Hide Anything from God! So, If you are feeling guilty,,,that is Called conviction.........And God is Dealing with your Heart, wanting you to "ASK FORGIVENESS" and Get It Right with Him. It May Mean the difference between MISERY AND FREEDOM!! "The Truth Sets YOU Free" + + +
2007-05-29 12:51:30
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answered by minnetta c 6
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Become advertising spokespeople for a major product ... worked for the cave men. Or run for political office and paper the area with picture posters. People will get use to seeing you, and you will probably get a few write in votes.
2007-05-29 08:53:50
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answered by lollipop 6
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You should come out of hiding. We are who we are and nothing can change that. If it is your will, be all means, do it.
2007-05-29 08:51:56
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answered by Ziggy Stardust 4
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God wants us to be who He created us to be or else He would of had you been created to be someone else.Be yourself or else you are living a lie.It may be painful for others to take but it is not as painful of what you have been going through.
2007-05-29 08:53:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Oh by all means stop hiding!
2007-05-29 08:50:39
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answered by Pirate AM™ 7
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one should do what one feels in their heart is the right thing to do. One needs to be honest with oneself and with others. when honesty takes place then most people will respect who and what one is.
2007-05-29 09:02:48
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answered by Marvin R 7
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It's easy, just stop hiding. You'll be accepted. No worries. :-)
Cheers and *hugs*
2007-05-29 08:51:34
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answered by Daft One 6
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Come on. That's bullcrap. We know you've had a spy amongst us for years now... Hello!! Rosie O'Donnell??? You think you were fooling us?
2007-05-29 08:52:16
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answered by Anonymous
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