for what you think you can change him into?
2007-05-29 01:32:50 · 20 answers · asked by asmikeocsit 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I love my husband for who he IS.
I am married to a much younger man; he's 25, I will be 45 soon. He's never been heartbroken, or mistreated by a woman. He's loving, open, honest, affectionate, and attentive. I wouldn't change a thing.
2007-05-29 02:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by Icewomanblockstheshot 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm honestly not sure how to answer this question. I love even the things I can't stand about my husband. Those irritating things are part of what makes him who he is. However, we both have changed since we got together, and keep changing. So, I don't love what "I can chang him into", but I do end up loving the changes that happen just as much. So, I love who is, but I also love whatever he becomes 2 days from now, 2 years from now, or 80 years from now, even though I don't know what that will be yet!
2007-05-29 01:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not "too nice", you're YOU. The reason you haven't found a good catch or perfect mate is because "nice girls" are just as hard to find. Keep up your image. You're the perfect guy girls want. And if anyone tells you that girls don't like an honest, respectable man, then they have a lot of problems. Girls who do say they like "bad boys" are the kind that would live on the dangerous side as well. They would cheat, have abortions on a whim, and live life pulling one night stands. You don't want that, so don't go looking for it. Find the girl who is looking for someone like you. You just have to look in the right places.
2016-05-20 22:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well me personally, I fell in love with my husband because of the guy he was and still is. If he changed I would think something was wrong with him. I would never ever try to change him no matter what. He's perfect to me just the way he is.
2007-05-29 01:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sweety375 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I adore my man for who he is, and for the encouragement he has given me in the past 24 years to allow me to have become the person I am today! I would never even think to try and change him! The only person we can change is our selves. We simply do not have the power to change others. Have a glorious week! Annie
2007-05-29 01:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't change a person into something he's not. Only silly immature girls think they can Change Him, not experienced women. My BF is a strong man with his own ideas about things, and that's one of the many things I love about him. I love his mind and his heart and how he loves me, and that makes me want to stick by him and take care of him.
That's what it's all about, bud.
2007-05-29 01:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by Nightlight 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love him now unconditionally. If he loves me, and wants to change some annoying habits, I won't love him any more or less, but I will be happier with him. On the flip side, I love him so much I am willing to change some of my annoying habits to please him. But, no, asking somebody to fundamentally change who they are, that's not really love.
2007-05-29 01:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by FlowerChild 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For who my love is!
It is only the young and naive (and stupid) who believe you can change a person beyond one or two basic habits.
Loving them for who they are will bring you far more joy in the long run.
2007-05-29 01:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by bluedragon8084 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I must love him for who (not what) he is. After almost 15 yrs of marriage, any changes he has made on his own. I can't change him.
2007-05-29 01:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by whos_ur_girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For what he is--nobody is going to change me and I never want the job of trying to change someone.
2007-05-29 01:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋