So this is the problem with me. Can't talk with her. Well, at least for recent months. I got too nervous. I have told her my feeling last year, thru E-mail and she said she just wanna be friends. Since then we continue to be friends and it's alright, but at school I rarely talk to her. Only text, e-card and e-mail. Some time ago we were gathering in a mall with a few pals and I thought she is kinda interested into me lil bit.
If you were her, and at school I have many chances to approach you and talk to you but I never take the chances, will you know/believe my affection for you?
What would you expect me to do then?
2007-05-28 23:16:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gosh, make your move already.
The way you're saying it, it seems like you haven't done much to let her know you mean it. I know alot of girls wonder if guys really mean what they say.
These things that you guys say have to be backed by actions!
Ok, so you don't speak to her..
Then what else have you done to make her feel that you do honestly like her?
I have guys who keep pestering me with text messages, drops gifts into my mailbox and even have their friends making a big "scene" when i walk by. These actions are WAY too obvious and she might find it repulsive.
So, if you want to make her believe/acknowledge your affections, you can start by noticing the little changes to her. Ask her how she is once in a while, smile when you see her (confidently), notice when she's down and try to cheer her up.
You know, it's these little actions that touch a girl's heart.
I hope you can analyse the situation better now. All the best, dude!
2007-05-28 23:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by amberlicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in high school, I really liked this guy for two years, I knew he liked me and I really liked him, we could not talk, because he was going with another girl.
But when he came into class with me and my friends he would talk to me and to all of my friends, but his eyes were mainly on me.
Then in our senior year, we were giving out senior pitchures and he wanted one of mine, I could not believe it! I was shocked, I knew he liked me, but I did not know he liked me that much!
If you are not going with anyone, and neither is she, if I were her, then I would want you to come up and say hi to me!
At least you are not tied down like the guy in my highschool was. I did not have a chance!
You do!!!!
2007-05-29 06:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i'd ask her if she still just wants to be friends or if she's ready to move on.
or i think it would be a good idea to start talking to her face to face more so that she knows you better. if you want to go out with her you have to be able to talk to her.
good luuuk :)
2007-05-29 06:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes...its understanderble....since she knows u like her..u noe the uncomfy feelin
2007-05-29 06:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by BH6413021 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋