I've had a crush for a girl since kindergarten, and I know that she used to like me, but I'm sure now. I want to pursue her, but she's a top student and I'm worried that if I succeed, I might bring her marks down. But I'm also scared that another guy will come along and do the same anyway. Help!
2007-05-28 22:01:55 · 10 answers · asked by gaga 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's really sweet... you should pursue her, ask her out in a simple date, like a coffee, or a study date, or walk her home and carry her things for her. Drop hints about your intention to take her to the prom etc. Try also to do good in your class so that you can really understand her plus you can study together and instead of being a source of distraction, you can be a source of inspiration for each other and a life line as well.. you better move fast, or else some swift talker might replace you in her heart
2007-05-28 22:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by blue_raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, congratulations for sticking with a crush for eleven years! Seriously, I'm pretty impatient myself, and I give up on crushes after a few months :)
Anyway, I definitely think you should go for it. As you pointed out- you've liked her since kindergarten- you know your feelings for her are real, and you don't really have anything to lose at this point, anyway.
Be confident and good luck :)
2007-05-28 22:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by brittpinkie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woh!! 11 years!! I think it's about time you did something! And you'r damn right about some odr guy cuming along. My bet is she wont wait another 11 years for you to make up your mind whether you should ask her out or not! So, WHAT r u waiting for??? Get a move on this very instant!
2007-05-28 22:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
c'mon dude! seriously! make a move will ya! n anyway if she likes u too then u r already bringing her marks down as she must be thinking of u already most of the time.
2007-05-28 22:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for next 11 years
2007-05-28 22:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by all a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, don't worry about any of that. You're thinking about it too hard. Just go talk to her! Good night!
2007-05-28 22:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah.. 11 years! seriously i think u shuld go for it! if u dont, u'll end up regretting it for the rest of your life. take a chance and good luck =D
2007-05-28 22:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH MAN I HAVE BEEN IN LOVE WITH A GIRL FOR 4 YEARS AND I TOLD HER MY FEELINGS JUST NOW. I KNOW THE PAIN OF HIDING SOMETHING IN YOUR HEART MAN. I JUST TOOK MY COURAGE AND TOLD HER. I EVEN TOLD HER TAT EVEN IF SHE SAID NO TO ME I WOULD STILL BE LOVING HER. IF YOU REALLY LOVE HER THEN LET HER KNOW YOU LOVE HER. ALL THE BEST MAN.
2007-05-28 22:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok talk to her be for other guys gets to her i hope this help you
2007-05-28 22:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by johnnycagedapp1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dare to make a move man!!
2007-05-28 22:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋