ive been single now for a year having split with my fiance of 6 years. i ended the relationship.
ive been told by guys who i meet that im a very good looking girl and have a great body!!they say they cant understand why im single. im just enjoying being single for the mo.
ive been meeting this guy casually for a few months now.ive known him a while. i met him through my ex. they were work colleagues. they were not friends. my ex has since moved away. they are not in contact.
we have only kissed eachother (despite hom wanting more)and we have a geat time when we are together!he knows about my ex and that i ended it but he doesnt know why. he always asks about him too when ever we are together.
we are not dating. we only meet by chance.
i would love to date this guy. why wont he ask me out???
he says in attractive etc and everything he wants in a woman but nothing!!!!!!!!!!!
im 25 and hes 29.
He is single.
2007-05-28 20:59:07 · 7 answers · asked by hunni!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well maybe you should make a move, and ask him out...it's okay and won't be awkward because you've known him for so long.
2007-05-28 21:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is interested, you have kissed and he did want more.
He is just being wary because (a) as you say, you are enjoying being single at the moment, maybe he thinks you might not be looking for a relationship yet and (b) he is wondering if your ex - whom he knew tentatively - is totally off the scene. That is why he keeps asking about your ex when you are together.
If you want this guy, I think you are going to have to make the first move. Ring him, ask him on a date, kiss him when he arrives. Take it from there.
2007-05-29 04:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by cobweb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still testing the waters....he wants to be 100% sure that you are really over the ex and that he is not just a "filler" or something. Give him time...he'll come around...meanwhile, give him some signs of encouragement...like maybe, put a little "extra" the next time you kiss!!! I hope everything works well for you. If this new guy is Mr. Right, I hope you will have a lasting relationship with him. Good luck and be happy.
***You said you're not dating...I hope you're in touch regularly tho...like by phone or e-mail perhaps...this would certainly speed up the process of building a relationship.
2007-05-29 04:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Inday 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead. Ask him, maybe he just thinks that you're not ready or interested.
2007-05-29 04:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Ask him out. He's probably hesitating b-cause he doesn't know if you are ready or interested.
2007-05-29 04:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by eesha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the modern thing! ASK HIM!
2007-05-29 09:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him darlin xx
2007-05-29 05:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋