How do you deal with someone who doesnt like u or talk to you, how do you act around that particular person?
2007-05-28 20:42:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
the same way I always do...if they don't like me that's their problem!
2007-05-28 20:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin J Davis 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have this very issue daily at work, I think we all do. This lady doesn't like me and I don't know why. I just assume it's chemistry some people just don't click.
I work in a retirement community and I care for someone there. Sometimes at dinner she sits with us. I try to act as I would if she wasn't there but sometimes she insists on making her presence known so I try to be civil or ignore her altogether. But mostly I try to treat her exactly as Jesus would which believe me is far from easy sometimes. I am Christian so my beliefs run pretty deep but I am also human and these types of things are never easy but the more difficult the task the more fulfilling the rewards if we persevere.
2007-05-28 20:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by kwazeeme 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As hard as it will be, continue to take the "high ground", remain cordial to the person and try to include them in your conversations whenever possible.
Take the position that some people are just shy and anti-social and need help coming out of their shell.
My 13 year old, who is a bit overweight, has won many friends and admirers by being firm, but polite, as to acceptable social situations.
If someone insults him, he tries to find a redeeming quality of the person that insults him and compliments them on, and then advises they would not be known as such a bad person if they everyone else knew they were talented in the corresponding quality. If they continue to be rude, he does not back down, tell them that he is sorry they feel that way, but will not tolerate insults and if they truly need to challenge him, he will meet them in the hallway at their convenience.
On the one dumba$$ that accepted this challenge, he quickly learned the skills my son acquired at the NFL Camp that my son hadrecently attended.
Other Mom of the "victim" backed down after realizing her son was 1 foot taller and 50 lbs heavier than my son backed down.
2007-05-28 21:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't talk or deal with them...u might be the greatest person out there...but there is always somebody that is going to have a problem with you...fact of life.
2007-05-28 21:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by G-ma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok. make certain you're no longer finding too deep into all this. has some thing got here about b/t the two one in all you? in step with probability different...human beings in touch???? how long have you ever been seeing one yet another? is he mature interior the 1st place? some thing must be up, yet having stated that my husband does not answer my questions 0.5 the time. i basically carry intercourse from him....the solutions come quickly after. ha ha ha.
2016-11-23 13:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by satterly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is usually an uncomfortable situation. I keep my distance and to be polite, I will say "Hello, how are you," but that is it. I try not to be discourteous, because I find that to be immature. Some people just don't mesh well in life, but it doesn't mean the situation has to become a full, blow-out fight.
2007-05-29 03:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and talk to them. Most situations like this are simply misunderstandings. Many times, even if they don't like you (bad chemistry), speaking kindly to them will make them stop and realize what a dumb ****** they're being for no reason, and it makes you look like you're confident and happy and they're just being a 'poopypants mcgee', and they'll change their tune.
If that doesn't work, just pretend they're not there, but don't be rude or stoop to their level.
2007-05-28 21:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a situation where you have to be around this person for many hours, just ignore them and carry on conversations with everyone else around them.
2007-05-29 01:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by newyorkmeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not try and get to know them? if they put you down, or a rude and show their dislike verbally/physically then that is the time you ignore and avoid them.
sometimes the person you didn't like in the beginning can even turn out to be a friend.
2007-05-28 21:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by 0sassy0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to act in any way. Just be yourself. You can't please everyone and you certainly can't get everyone to like you. If the person doesn't like you or talk to you, just move on. You have your own life to lead.
2007-05-28 21:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends whether you like the person or not.
If you don't like the person, who cares?
If you like the person, try to examine yourself. What might be the reason(s) why that person does not like you? Also, try to act normal. Who knows, he/she might start talking to you.
2007-05-28 21:07:58 · answer #11 · answered by heythere 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋