My ex-girl and I dated for about a year and a half. We broke up about 10 mnonths ago. Now I find myself attracted to her sister. We've been going out quite alot but keeping it a secret. I don't know what to do? Should I stop seeing her or tell the ex?
2007-05-28 20:19:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's NOT ok. Stop seeing her.
2007-05-28 20:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by Love_my_Cornish_Knight❤️ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not right because you could make them to hate each other and then the sister you like will stop talking to you. You should think about family first like losing her sister would hurt her because I know for a fact I would never do that because my sister and I are super close. I don't want to be mean or anything but it is hard when you like your ex's sibiling because then you have to see your ex all the time also because your dating her sister. That could hurt you to because seeing your ex all the time would bring back memories and I don't know if you want to put yourself through that. I know I wouldn't want to go through that. I would stop seeing her and not tell the ex because that could stur up trouble between the sisters and you. I hope I can help if not sorry
2007-05-28 20:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mackenzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a good idea unless they're serious enemies. If they're okay with each other you will find the sister A LOT like your ex as they're living in the same family, I'm guessing.
So unless they hate each others guts, I'd avoid both of them. The other thing is your ex will be happy about it and not get involved if she isn't jealous as long as you are both happy she'll be fine. If she is jealous then don't risk it. She will most likly tell tales to her sister about you behind your back which could make it hell for you.
2007-05-28 20:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by Gumby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my god, they are many other girls out there and you attract to ur exgirls sister. for me if you like this girls just go on with her but it maybe be a problem coz one of the family is ur ex. but its ok i think coz you do not breakup with this girls coz her sister right? so just go on and you dont have to make it a secret
2007-05-28 20:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by idah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a VERY VERY bad thing to do. Once u date one in the family the rest is OFF limits. Its in the "rules" of dating...
2007-05-28 20:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stop seeing her and tell the ex. your asking for serious trouble in this situation, move on for your own sanity
2007-05-28 20:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to ask her Sister, If she would
care If she dated you.
Then It's talk between the girls.
2007-05-28 20:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depend...are you going out with her cos she reminds you of your ex or r you doin ths to piss ur ex
2007-05-28 20:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Zin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell her sister
and i think its ok as long as you were not doing anything with her sister when you were with your ex
2007-05-28 20:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by Bec 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's up to her sister, you're just a man doing your thing
2007-05-28 20:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋