What the hell is wrong with people.?

Question

Why do people come on here asking for advice with girls/guys? Now if you have a specific problem then ok (although most of the ones i've seen are common sence). But is it truly that hard to know what a girl/guy wants?

Plus don't you people understand what will happen if you "act" to get a girl/guy? They aren't going to be attracted to you.. they're going to be attracted to the person that replied to your message told you to act like. What do you think will happen when you stop acting???

So here's my question.. a'm I the only one that thinks relationships are easy to find?

Answer 1

here's the thing!
I see usually people come and ask here, not all to find 'answer'.
for the common sense problems, it's just they need some comforting... to find people who listen and can relate to them.
it's their way to share feelings, grieves, lonesome, etc.etc.

for the real problems... well okay, they have problems

and for 'us' the answer giver... we just need to be a wise a$$...

but I disagree that relationship is easy to find! sex, lust, fun are easy to find. but to find someone that can really relate with the person you are, it's rather difficult (now I'm being a wise @ss)

well it might be easy for you, since you are so damn hot and all.. ;)

Answer 2

For one, this is kind of mean and rude to the people who really do want to find a genuine relationship with someone and ask about what they should do on here. Second of all, you probably don't really care about having a genuine woman as long as you have one, so you don't worry about what they want or don't want because you don't care. At least that is what you are saying in this question. And if you have set standards like me, then yes, a good genuine relationship is hard to find, but i would rather have one boyfriend worth spending time with, then a whole bunch of relationships that don't mean anything to me.

Answer 3

Relationships may be easy to find for some people. If you are shy it may be hard to get someone to notice you weather or not they will like who you really are.

It may take some coaching or encouragement for some people to put their foot down and make a move, not necessarily a move scripted by others, but any move.

I think that the majority of people that come to this website with questions already have an answer and ask to confirm it or reassure them.

Answer 4

Personally,

I think they're difficult to find! At least good ones. Sure, some things are just common sense, BUT some people get really confused. Some things are really confusing and some aren't very good with relationships. They just want advice.

Answer 5

A lot of kids are on here, mind you.

And I'm sure you remember your more inexperienced days of having a lot of random questions. And if you don't then... too bad for you. But anyway, relationships are very easy to find.

If you know what you want.

Answer 6

Everyone isn't as bight
as you are that can figure things out on their own..It might be common sense to you but you would be surprised just to find out that we don't think a like.If the question offends you then move on to the next question.

Answer 7

yes, because deep relationships aren't found, they are developed.
but I agree on the acting and the common sense ;) it's just sometimes people are so flustered they can't think straight.. so, I don't blame them for coming here.

Answer 8

I think relationships are very easy to find. You're right. If you're acting like something you're not then, that person wont like the "real " you.

Answer 9

yes. you sound like a hoe or something. like one of those mexican girls whose in high school and can't find her way out.

Answer 10

I do not surely know. Who knows?