I am a female 14 yrs old and single and have been for 2 yrs for now. i like being in relationships so this is like the end of the world for my has any 1 got any ideas. i cant go on internet dating coze ma parents would kill me :(
2007-05-28 19:39:57 · 15 answers · asked by Albe B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
study hard, go to college... get a great career and meet a MAN.... boys are toys, women need a man.
2007-05-28 19:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you were in a relationship when you were twelve... your parents need to learn how to be parents. Your a baby! Slow down, 14 and single? Your watching way to much TV! Try to have just friends. Boy's and girl's should be just friends at that age. What the heck are you going to do when your 18? Sound's like your going to be married and have a few babies. If you feel that bad you need to see a councilors at school.
2007-05-28 19:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by LORETTA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u be single or in relationships when u re only 14? shouldn't u concentrate on studying at school and getting education and then perfect job - otherwise u will be single when u re after 30. and this what sucks big s. being single at 14 is nothing to compare to that. and who needs a dumb girl with no job? only a loser
2007-05-28 19:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by 111 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, calm down. I'm not going to pull the "you are young" card and be like that, but just take it easy and get to know people and if you're heart is in the right place, you might find someone that you like and might treat you well right back too. But dont go looking for a relationship like the bargain bin at Walmart, because that is all you will end up getting. Set yourself up to succeed and be happy with your choices :)
2007-05-28 19:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by ljguy08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX. you're 14. work on your guy friendships and take it from there. if you date people on the internet you deserve a dummy smack at your age. that **** is for old desperate people. like 20 year olds. there is nothing wrong with taking time off in between relationships, either. i think its best to clear your head and center yourself before embarking on some new partnership. just sit back and be sexy and men will come to you eventually.
2007-05-28 19:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by harie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Gals! U r too young for this. Just used ur time to further up ur studies so in future u will be in good life . Enjoy ur teenager lifetime which no worries of income ... Dont think of relationship with guy. It will come when time comes.. Let fate..
2007-05-28 19:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by Vv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no little woman I dont think you should try online dating anyway because it is extremely dangerous and plenty of girls have been date raped by men they met online...so it is not the best dating choice to begin with. To be honest, I think 14 is a bit young for dating anyway, it doesnt hurt to wait for a couple of years when you are both mentally and physically more mature and have better judgement. what is your reason for wanting a boyfriend? companionship or sex? if it is mere companionship, make more friends...if its the latter, your hand (or hands) is your best friend (not to mention safe sex). oh and if your looks (over weight, under weight, lousy hair) are affecting your love life, revise them (gain weight, lose weight...whatever!)
2007-05-28 19:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by jeffreylin0903 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello dear ,
I think this type of feellings are right for a girl of your age .but dear this most precious time of your life so concentrate on your studies and work hard to acchieve the goals of your life.
i appriciate your fellings that you r affraid of your parents this shows you have a lot of respect for your parents so, never try heart there feellings.
to get rid of these type of feelings try to read good literature and share your feeelings with your friends and familly members.
2007-05-28 19:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by pawanender palial 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 14...you should be single...learn who you are...let your own thoughts and talents, NOT THE DESIRE TO PLEASE SOMEONE ELSE form your opinion of yourself...if you become dependent on a relationship to make you happy...it Will not...you will get so that you need reassurance from another to feel good...this is called co-dependence and you will become subservient upon the wishes of others...go through the fire to feel the warmth of the flame...you will be a stronger, more attractive and secure individual in the future for it...rwfm
2007-05-29 22:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by rwfm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still young. It doesn't matter if you don't have boyfriend. Better if you think about your study. And if you really need boyfriend, just try to find them. don't be shy. Although you are girl, it doesn't matter to start first and you will have the chance to get what you want. Good Luck!
2007-05-28 19:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by -v- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to worry about this just wait for the right moment and right person to come to you.
Take this decision very care fully coz its attached to your emotions too.
Take my advice think good you will get a good friend.
bye
vijaypancham@yahoo.com
2007-05-28 19:48:36 · answer #11 · answered by Bijay Patnaik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋