I went to a male strip club and met this male dancer. Well i had seen him before because I'm a female dancer. He thought I was cute and got my number. We talk on the phone a couple times. We meet up at my club talked for just a little bit. I go to the restroom and I come back and he's gone. I call him and he says he had to hurry because a friend was in trouble. I call him afterwork and he's upset cause a different friend that he's known since highschool has died. So the next day I call to see what he is up to and it doesn't sound like he really wants to talk and says he's going to be with some of his friends and that maybe we can meet up later. I call him right back because I forgot to say something and he doesn't answer.The rest of the night he doesn't answer. I left him a text message saying if he is interested in me to call me in the morning so we can hangout and if he isn't interested to not call and I wont call him. He hasn'tcalled. All of this happend in two days. What happend?
2007-05-28 19:28:54 · 9 answers · asked by Brittney l 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never called first it was only either when I missed his call or if he asked me to call him
2007-05-28 21:31:53 · update #1
Oh and also at the club was the second time seeing him and it was no longer than 5 min..also before that we had only talked on the phone like twice both times straight to the point and not very long. Last thing I don't think I as being clingy cause I don't want a relationship I was just looking to do just a little more than just talk. Oh well I guess it wasn't meant to happen still very wierd.
2007-05-28 21:39:18 · update #2
actually he was just grieving ..he's been calling me everyday now. Guess all of you were wrong
2007-05-30 21:11:56 · update #3
Your a female dancer............go find another guy because you shouldnt have a problem
2007-05-28 19:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by hookup74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with chickendontfly. Real queens don't call their men. ;-). You definitly sound like you came off as clingy, you should tone it down. A lot of people make that mistake, they like someone so much they want every second with that person, and sometimes its not mutual, and thats where the problem comes. I think this guy wanted to keep it casual, and you might have been aiming for more. Try to get the guy to call you next time!
2007-05-29 02:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by c3345 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o, boy, so he isn't interested. u said or did smth that appauled him and after u made this mistake of being too clingy. girl, have some dignity - a real queen never calls a man first. no matter how much he asks her - if he wants u he will call. if he doesn't want u - why do u need a man who doesn't want u on the first place?
2007-05-29 02:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by 111 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's already over you girl. Move on. He like you at first but as he got to know you better something about the two of you did not appeal to him. Perhaps he realised that he would not be good for you or vice versa.
Get over it and move on. It was only 2 days.
2007-05-29 02:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of two things:
1 - He really did loose a good friend and he is grieving.
2 - He probably enjoys your company, but he is probably seeing someone else for profit.
doc
2007-05-29 02:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not interested. if he is a male dancer than he is probably gay. either way he is DEFINATELY not interested. you didnt talk to him that long so its probably not some major personality flaw unless you have one that is so bad it is immediately apparent. at any rate let this one go.
2007-05-29 02:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by harie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dont dare 2 see u or talk to u
2007-05-29 02:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by octo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has decided he is not interested in you but is not man enough to just tell you
2007-05-29 02:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋