what should i do in my first date not now the girl to kiss her or not ?

Answer 1

Why do we date? To have a fun evening, but also to try to find a person we have chemistry with. If you have a good time and of there seems to be a good vibe between you two then you go for the kiss or the make out. If she refuses to kiss you, that means she isn't feeling any chemistry, last date move on. If she does want to kiss, is there any spark there? If not, last date move on.