My boyfriend watches porn like alot. And when he see's something new on a porn DVD he always wants to try it with me. I gets to the point that he's not himself anymore, if I say no am I a bad girlfriend?
2007-05-28 19:07:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, you're not a bad girlfriend. if he's pushing you into things you aren't comfortable with then he is a bad boyfriend. don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and say no. no one should ever push you into things you aren't comfortable with.
2007-05-28 19:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello there..
Oh well, u have to solve this problem before he starts watching porn without needing u around to help him..
Porn is an addiction and it comes to a point where sometimes watching porn to them satisfies em more than the real thing..
This can get outta hand..sometimes we use porn to excite our sex lives but if everytime u guys have sex,he needs it...
Then u better tell him that ur not happy with the way he does things..and ur sexlife
And saying no is essential when the things he ask u to do is totally rediculous.. and porn has no limit - anything can happen and everything can be done ...
U gotta tell him, if he wants all that.. go get a porn star who would do all that stuff..
alright?
some things can be negotiated...some cant..
maybe u try something to disguss him, let him feel how u feel..
tkcare then..
ciao!
2007-05-29 02:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by kim_stolz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is always exaggerated. Imitating porn is not good. You are not a bad girl if you say NO to your boy friend, either on this issue or any other issue.
2007-05-29 02:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its alright if its for a few times,
but if he asks almost every single time he watches a porn dvd... yeah,. i think its about time you said no.. doesnt make you a bad girlfriend.. but might want to let your boyfriend rethink if he wants to have sex with you or a porn dvd.
2007-05-29 02:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by cindee_babee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not a bad girlfriend! I am all for trying new things, but if my husband watches something and wants to try it and I don't, he doesn't get mad. It is your body so respect it babe. If your boyfriend tries the"if you love me you will do this for me" crap, walk away fast, because the ones that do that rarely grow up, they stay selfish and you will end up resenting him and hating yourself. Find someone who will respect you and not make you do what you don't want to do.
2007-05-29 02:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY COULD HELP BUT ANSWER THIS QUESTION BECAUSE MY (FEMALE) COUSIN HAD THE SAME PROBLEM....NO YOUR NOT BEING A BAD GIRLFRIEND.. BECAUSE LIKE YOU SAID HE'S NOT BEING HIMSELF SO WHY SHOULD YOU ACT LIKE HIS LITTLE PORN STAR ACTRESS?...I WOULD HOPE THAT YOU GUYS HAVE BOUNDARIES ON HOW HE'S SUPPOSED TO TRAT YOU...WITH RESPECT AND LOVE..NOT JUST AS A PIECE OF MEAT.
2007-05-29 02:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by DJRULO_07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. You are his girlfriend, not his own living sex doll. If things get too freaky for your taste, just say the magic word. NO. You aren't there to fullfill his strange fantasies, and if he can't get over that, then he is a jerk that you would be better off without.
2007-05-29 02:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by Dangermouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is getting addicted its time to lessen his porn watching and fast. i mean its already effecting him as a person.
so say no, and help him to get over this, too much porn is a bad thing
2007-05-29 02:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. If its something extreme that will make you feel uncomfortable then just tell him that...whats the point doing something thats supposed to be pleasurable if your not gonna like it. If there are other things you dont mind doing then do...but just tell him when its too much.
2007-05-29 02:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not a bad girlfriend for not wanting to try anything new. you should only do what you are comfortble with and if he doesnt like it then you dont need to be with him. he doesnt sound very mature if you ask me
2007-05-29 02:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by loverbird20032003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋