2007-05-28 19:04:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why not?? why should we pay for what someone did to us as a child. we deserve love also, don't cha think?
2007-05-28 19:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by ladyGRNiz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was raped when I was young and I have a husband now that treats me like a queen. If a guy really loves the girl, it doesn't matter.
2007-05-29 02:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by amanda c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would this even pop in your mind? I was raped when I was 16. I am now 21 and married. Its not that easy. Being raped is a serious emotional issue, I went to counseling, tried to commit suicide and went through several boyfriends because I felt like I was no good for them. I have had a couple of boyfriends dump me because they said they couldnt handle it. Its hard when you look in the mirror and its not your face you see. I met my husband and He is wonderful. Hes actually helped me learn to let go. i will never forget but I will not let it control me anymore. He treats me wonderful but not because I was raped but because he loves me. I still have nightmares and I have to have light when we you know. I dont want people feeling sorry for me. You should want to marry a girl because you love her and then treat her like a queen.
2007-05-29 02:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love conquers all.
My girlfriend was no angel, and I knew it. I fell in love with her any way.
You are a queen no matter what happened. You deserve the best; don't dare settle for less! You are special with a lot to offer to the right person, when the time is right. Respect your self and others will respect you also.
Good luck.
drew
2007-05-29 02:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by andrew b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh well...
Its really up to u to decide u know..
Other people dont mind i think coz its in the past ..
wats done is done..
She has suffered and will have to suffer with that painful memory..
And maybe u could change her mind on that..
All women should be treated as a queen..
ciao !
2007-05-29 02:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by kim_stolz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im already married so no. but there is nothing wrong with a guy getting married to a girl that was raped as long as you both love each other.
2007-05-29 02:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i woudnt marry her just because she had been raped, but if you love her, and have tried living with her, and get along well, and have been with her for a while, yeah, marry her.
every girl should be treated like a queen anyway.
2007-05-29 02:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by deaity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF she said, No or Stop. and it was done anyways, then she was raped.
But, why should that stop you from marrying her if you love eachother.
I would not bring the rape up unless she wants to talk about it.
And when and if she does, just be supportive of her.
As long as she knows you love her and thats she's safe, thats all that matters.
2007-05-29 02:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by iwish40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you love her for what she is....remember:
-what has happen has happen for the best(past)
-what will happen will happen for the best(future)
-leave in the present as it is god's gift.
So if you love her than treat her like a queen and she will treat you like a king and you will have the best married life as you leave in the present......
2007-05-29 02:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by Freakout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat like a queen.. well... I treat my wife like a wife should be treated... buying her small things, helping her around the house, telling her I love her etc, if thats treating her like a queen... well... your dating the wrong guys. :-)
2007-05-29 02:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by joelevan18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i don't care about what the girl has gone through, i care about what the girl is now and i would appreciate who she is and would treat her the way she deserves to be
2007-05-29 02:08:16 · answer #11 · answered by David 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋