Is it rude to ask for sex on the 1st date with a chick?

Question

since the guy is usually paying for all the dinner, movie and etc....sex should be given by woman.

Answer 1

First off, the woman (we are not "chicks") you are on a date with is your date, not a prostitute. It is not acceptable for you to expect sex from her just because you bought them dinner and a movie ticket. (Even prostitutes don't put out for that amount!) I am not trying to be a feminist or anything, I hate people like that!...but seriously, that's like saying it's fair for a woman to expect you to say you love her because she paid for the second date!

Answer 2

It depends on the woman, how easy she is and how attractive you are to her.

First of all, sex is never "part of the deal" and I suggest you grow up if you think it is. Simply because you've paid for everything does not mean she has to sleep with you. For that reason I always say on the first few dates you should go Dutch so that there's no misunderstanding later. I also believe that she should pay on a regular basis especially if she's working at the time. And if she's making more than you, she should be paying more often.

If she doesn't agree to this, then she's just in it for the money and stringing you along.

Answer 3

Were you just bored and looking to make the female population hate you? Or are you seriously asking this question???

If you ask politely, it's not rude. If you want a second date, I would wait.

Paying for dinner etc. does entitle you to the priviledge of having sex. It does not guarentee you a romp in the sack. The woman is not obligated to "service" you just because you took her out. Learn this now.

If you want a guarentee of sex at the end of the date...there are woman who will do that for you..they are called prostitutes.

Answer 4

It is not rude to want or to have sex on the first date. It is, however, rude to assume because you are shelling out money for dinner and a movie that you deserve it. If that is all you want, go get a prostitute and cut to the chase.

A real man will know how to seduce a woman and will know when she is receptive of such advances.

But, I am sure you already know this and are simply being cheeky.

Answer 5

People like you are exactly why I never let men pay for anything for me. I always pay my own way. There was a time in our culture when men were expected to pay for dates, and women were not considered to be under any obligation. Clearly times have changed. If this is your expectation when you take a woman out, you should make it clear at the time you ask for the date, so the woman can decide if she'd like to be a prostitute for you.

Answer 6

Excuse you!! Sex should not be given by a woman just cause you paid a few bucks for some food!! and if this is how you feel I feel sorry for any girl whoever meets you.. }:<

Answer 7

Is that the only reason you're asking a girl on a date with you - because you think she'll be obligated to have sex with you if you pay for everything?

Please evolve. Get a prositute if you want to have sex - it would make more fiscal sense anyway.

Answer 8

Buying me dinner, a movie, ect. and expecting sex implys that I am a whore..

You need to just admit you want a whore, you can get them for far less than it costs for dinner and a movie... And they expect you to be a jerk and only be after sex.. Win Win situation for you, you will always get the sex you are after for putting out your cash..

Answer 9

I don't know if it is rude or not.

Should sex be given by the woman because the guy paid for everything? Ha-ha-ha! You wish!

Answer 10

I think any woman you go out with should give you a kick in the a**...cause thats what you deserve.
Women aren't 'chicks', they're human beings just like you. (or at least I HOPE you're a human being under all that macho bulls*it).
Grow up...