Am I the only non-Asian woman who is starting to dislike Asian women?

Question

I know I am just jealous, but do any other women feel this way? Every man I know prefers Asian women, thinks they are SO exotic (mind you, they were born and raised in the USA) and even when the girls are not even that pretty, the men like them JUST because they are Asian. How can normal, non-Asian women compete? Am I the only one who feels this way?

Answer 1

I totally feel the same. I am currently talking to a guy who's ex-girlfriend is Asian and now I feel that I have to work harder for this guy because I'm white. Then, the other day my ex invited me to lunch and proceded to brag about his new half-Asian girlfriend...GIVE ME A BREAK!

Answer 2

Yeah, it's obnoxious. But it's not entirely their fault. When American men go to Asia, the women fall all over them and they start to get a little too big for their britches. My ex cheated on me with a whole string of Asian girls, although his luck with American ladies is nothing to be admired.

I also think it's just cause they're exotic and different. Studies have shown that people can't differentiate facial features of other races as well as they can their own. So I think that's how guys think they're all pretty. The zeal for Asian women seems to be mainly an American thing though. My fiance says the exotic thing for French men is African women.

I guess your only consolation can be that you can go somewhere else and be exotic and desired for no reason except your race as well. But it's probably more of a nuisance, and nothing to be jealous about.

Answer 3

Depends on which state and/or town you live. I know I probably shouldn't answer this question and/or even feel very angry, but I'm not (being very honest here). I also hate it of how almost every man thinks that Asian women are so exotic like you. Personally, I think almost every male thinks this way because of stereotypes. Most of them think that all Asian women are supposed to be submissive, graceful, have a tight... (you know what I mean). These are just stereotypes. In fact, I love to play sports which may not seem like a graceful thing and hate doing what people tell me to do since it makes me feel a servant and may not go along with the whole submissive idea.

Answer 4

no matter what women tell you ( do not believe them ), in this game the things that matter are: 1. looks - asian guys' faces are not animalistic enough and member sizes are usually small 2. status - you have to be famous or at least rich, asian guys may not know how to demonstrate their financial wealth 3. personality is important only if you have either 1 or 2 above. Asian guys usually appear insecure, not confident really my advice for asian guys: stick to asian women or make a lot of money and demonstrate it to white women

Answer 5

no need to be jealous, we love just as you are!

i suspect a guy you liked flipped for an asian woman.

remember there are many other men out there to choose from.

you can compete very effectively. you have all the equipment.

part of the attraction about asian women is that they seem to be so gentle and helpless. no true!!!! they can be very tough competitors. pity the guy who thinks he has it made in the shade. pity the guy who think asian women are helpless!

as mr. t would say pity the fool.

there is a mixed couple who park next to my space. the man is an orthodox jew. he is always brassy and speaks in a commanding way. her demeanor is always submissive. one morning he was looking for something and she told him it was in the trunk. he continued to moan and groan until he found the object.

after he found it, i was totatally shocked when she let loose on him and said i told you so etc. she then went on to appy a low level butt whipping / berating on him and he was trying to quiet her down but she could not be quited.

she appears more confident every morning. he is now more sububdued and quiet.

don't misunderstand, like all other women, asian women know how to manipulate any situation. half those guys will not realize they are being quietly manipulated and directed.

lets just accept our asian sisters as our sisters. don't hold a grudge.

you will have many many wins over time. there are many innings to the process. one day does not a season make.

cool out.

we still love and admire you, as we do our asian and all sisters.

Answer 6

You should start by finding a man who isn't a stereotypical jerk. I am Asian and it gets to me how guys go for Asians just because they believe in stupid stereotypes like asians being submissive, easy, having a tight vagina, and looking like the typical Asian in pornography. This stuff is either based off of stereotypes or they have "yellow fever" It's not true and when they find that out, alike any other race, they will get bored and leave.

Answer 7

I don't this the stereotype of all men like Asian women is completely accurate. There are a lot of guys that like all sorts of women, and you really just have to look to find them.

Besides, the guys who only like Asian women because they're Asian are shallow idiots, and you wouldn't want to go out with them anyways because they're so shallow!

Answer 8

Is it the Asian women, or is it the men? They can't help that they are being liked. If a man is only focusing on Asian women, then he is clearly doing it for their race and not their individual personalities - shallow, and his loss. Try looking at a situation from all viewpoints before getting upset.

XOXO,
Laurie

Answer 9

i know what you mean. the guys who just prefer asian women are the ones who think they are goddesses, and think need to spice up their sexual life. they might be also guys who just prefer small and petite figures, as most asian women are like that. there is also a stereotype about asian women, that they are, well how can i say this? ...tight, you know... ;) even though they aren't pretty, some guys just want to see what it's like being with one, or even maybe marrying one. trust me, many men like non - asian women as well. many many fish in the sea.

Answer 10

It very strange most American men prefer Asian women for some strange reason. Not American here or Asian. But they always in chat rooms seeking Asian women, claiming that American women are only interest in their wallet etc.