I like this guy, and I want to have sex with him really badly, but I don't know how he feels about me. Today, he told me that he moved into his new appartment and that I should come over for drinks sometime...then a few minutes later, he started rubbing my shoulders because I told him I was stressed out about something.So I guess my question is, would you do that to a girl you didn't like or wasn't attracted to? Does coming over for drinks mean he's interested in having sex with me? Any of your thoughts or advice would be appreciated.
2007-05-28 14:10:43 · 7 answers · asked by GreenEyedFox 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is attracted to you....and he PROBABLY wants to have sex with you. Rubbing your shoulders was just an excuse for him to touch you. Inviting you for drinks is a way to to seek your company in an enviornment where you can be alone with each other. Also alcohol tends to melt ones inhibitions.
I would say it is pretty much a SLAM-DUNK that he wants you and he to be joined in coitus........
2007-05-28 14:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by Felix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that this guy finds you attractive and wants to have sex with ya. Maybe he is just a little shy about saying anything to ya afraid that you will reject him. I think that it would be o.k. the next time you are together with him that maybe you turn up the heat a bit and see what happens.
2007-05-29 04:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tyler R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm. yeah, if the guy asked u over for drinks hes tryin to hit... also most guys dont touch (rubbing ur shoulder) girls they dont think they have a chance with (mace burns alot). So go back to his house and throw it to him, u probably wont have to try to hard. *get drunk with him and be naked when he comes back from the bath room, no straight man kicks that out
2007-05-28 21:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by 10thletter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys would jump at the chance to have uncommitted sex --- he may like you and want to get to know you better --- i very much doubt that he expects to have sex with you --- just some drinks and conversation
2007-05-28 21:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes abosolutely
he wouldn't ask you over for sex
go over for drinks
tell him you are stressed and need one of his back rubs
while he is rubbing your back turn around and look up ate him and smile
he will kiss you
the rest will take care of it self
be safe, bring condoms
2007-05-28 21:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he finds u attractive idk about sex make a move and see
2007-05-28 21:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Playa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man just do it..............dooooooooooo it
2007-05-28 21:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋