Is he serious?

Question

I have been seeing someone fore the past 2 years who is much older than I am and makes alot more money than I do (like 10 times). He is busy so ususally we only see each other once every week. Now that his son is home from college, he wants me to be "on call". He has not introduced me to people who are important to him as anything more than a work associate/mentee. He knows that I have no family and on holidays while I am alone he spends all of his time with his family and does not even call to wish me a happy christmas, etc. Occasionally, he will leave me a text message. This Memorial Day we had plans but one of his adult children decided to invite him to a cookout so he told me that I had to wait around until he was done and then we could go out. Am I wrong to think that maybe he is not serious although he says that he is and that he loves me?

Answer 1

maria i had a relationship like this and it went nowhere! if he loves you he will want to introduce you to family and his friends. you are being used for sex.get out now sweetie and find someone to share a life with not one day a week! good luck!

Answer 2

Your relationship seems very dull and boring. You only see him once a week, and he shuts your out of his family. To me it is obvious that he is NOT serious. The only thing that is serious is that he seriously needs to be dumped by you. This is my opinion. "Not having time" is not an excuse. What is more important, money or love? Your choice.

Answer 3

no he does not sound serious --- if it was me i would spend all the time i could with my lady --- introduce her to my family --- and she is much younger than i am --- she is the most important person in my life --- sorry and best wishes

Answer 4

Why are you dating the dude?

Don't make yourself a doormat.. You deserve better. Much more better.

Ditch the guy and find someone else much more worthy.