Why do good guys always get overlooked by the ladies?

Answer 1

Because every young lady looks for excitement, just as every young man wants a pretty and sexy lady at his side. But, both of those wear out or wear you out. Hang in there, you will meet someone who is worthy of you. Assess what your "hunting grounds" are, then go forth.

Answer 2

I don't think that the 'good guys' necessarily get overlooked - I think that the ones who have the most open and forthright personalities are the ones who are 'seen' most around the campus or wherever. A lot of these guys are fakers because when you engage them in conversation, many of them have no idea of how to talk to you, what to talk about and conversatiions are often limited. Take your time to let those guys go on out for the game - meanwhile, you just sit back in the cut. Smile a lot and offer good conversation where and when necessary - help the ladies out - be friendly, open doors, offer help in homework or something - but be 'different', Good guys are recognized eventually because the others run out of steam -and run through the women too fast. Meanwhile, you can continue to be calm and cool and the ladies will notice you. Dress well, smell good , walk with purpose. When I was in school, the boys who wore glasses and button down shirts with neat pants and shoes, who maybe played in the band, was on the forensic team, or perhaps might have had a little extra weight- these were the guys I liked. Yes, I had crushes on the football jocks - but I knew they would never look my way -and I didn't want them really. The other boys were always interesting, had fun things to say and do and like to read and paid attention to the things I said - those are the best guys - and they make the best husbands - good luck.

Answer 3

I don't think that's true :) I love the good guy--they're hard to find though.