I really want it
2007-05-28 12:07:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Something is holding you back, since you are posing the question. You should only have sex when there are NO doubts.
2007-05-28 12:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by Lioness 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? I'm 16 and I want to too, sometimes , and then sometimes I think rationaly in like 4 more years I'll be 20, old enough to be in a serious, serious relationship, where you actually talk about getting married and stuff, but sometimes I just want to so badly, but my boyfriend being not ready to ( I know weired hun lol ) I take a step back and realize, no I want to wait a little while longer, like at least a year, at least.
2007-05-28 12:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk with your mom, and you might be surprised on how your mom might react. You should give her a chance and talk with her.
Birth control isn't fool proof, and you and your partner are inexperienced, so you need to be prepared to answer these and other questions. Are you ready to deal with a pregnancy? Are you ready to deal with having to have an abortion? Are you ready to deal with having a STD? Are you ready to deal with a boy only wanted to have sex with you? Are you ready to give up your dreams to raise a child? There are so many question to be asked. You will be better equipped to answer these question once you are in a married and in a committed relationship
2007-05-28 12:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it just because your BF wants it and has been waiting for it, make sure you really, really want to, and if you haven't before, make sure you know what your getting into, and please always have safe sex.
2007-05-28 12:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by Shi. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really want a million dollars too! Just because you "WANT" something doesnt mean you NEED it. Do you and your b/f have jobs/cars/ places of your own? You do/ Good get married THEN have sex.Otherwise therell be NOTHING special left to give him on your honeymoon and if you get pregnant youll probably get dumped too.Use your HEAD to make decisions with g/f not your hormone enflamed genitals.
2007-05-28 12:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you are BOTH ready for it. It is a big step. A lot of emotion really does go into it. Talk it out, use protection, and take it slow.
2007-05-28 12:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are too young it can mess w/ your head.
And remember boys think of about thirty things during the day and thirty of them are sex!
Whatever you do, if you decide to have sex, use your head and use protection.
2007-05-28 12:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by youarewrongbobisright 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you are older. What your boyfriend wants is not an issue. You clearly have some misgivings or you would not have asked strangers for their opinion. You have plenty of time.
2007-05-28 12:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your talking like this, your not ready. Sex will come in time, if your bf is pressuring you to have sex, then its not worth it.
2007-05-28 12:09:22 · answer #9 · answered by di12381 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if your ready. Don't just do it because he wants you to. Don't be pressured into anything you don't want to do. Because you will regret that in the future. Don't trade want you want the most for what you want for the moment.
2007-05-28 12:31:27 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♫MiSZ.CHRiSTY♥♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋