guys what are some things that really turn you on, and what are some things that really turn you off?
thanks
girls can answer too..if they reallly want to
2007-05-28 12:00:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm . . . I just wrote a mostly comprehensive answer last night, so I'll just paste that here:
Here's a list of the characteristics I'm most attracted to (more or less):
Physically:
Height between 4'10" and 5'8"
Smallish waist, with moderate sized hips and breasts
Not fat
Hair not too short
Cuddly (not sure how else to put it)
Personality:
Easygoing
Friendly
Kind
Respectful
Trustworthy, honest
Reasonable
Straightforward (fairly easy to understand)
Responsible
Decently intelligent
Optimistic (almost no one likes to be around depressing people!)
Affectionate
Kind of high energy level (not ridiculously high, but I don't like lazy girls either)
Oh yeah, it's also attractive for a girl to be a nonsmoker, to drink rarely, and not make a big deal out of everything. Not being a busybody is attractive. (I know some girls who are always involved in so much stuff they don't have any free time.) Also, having slept with very few (or no) other guys is a HUGE plus. Definitely don't make the mistake of having children before you get married. I can't think of anything else off the top of my head. That stuff is not in any particular order, by the way. It's all pretty important too. I might compromise on one or two things, but if a girl was way different I'd have to think hard before getting seriously involved with her.
I think that should clear things up for you. Here's the link, btw:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=At7znvVHUWnjXMQN4GxfdHHty6IX?qid=20070528000000AAP9fag&show=7#profile-info-BIAclLyCaa
Good night!
2007-05-28 12:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn ons:
Being inhibition free... like catching you dancing stupidly in your living room and not caring.
Being opinionated, but not TOO opinionated! :p
Confidence - shy can be cute, but confidence is sexy
physical things....
flat tummy's, sultry eyes, tight bums, watching you service yourself (and everything else that goes in the sex category)
skimpy clothes that are somewhat reavealing... yet still leave something to the imagination
Working out at the gym
getting hot and sweaty
being sexually adventurous
Turn offs:
well, theres many obvious ones... poor hygiene, be it oral or general...
sarcasm
bitching
thinking you're better than ANYONE else.
being flirtatious towards everyone you meet
Bodyhair
Smoking
theres a few
2007-05-28 12:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just like to point out that these answers are almost 100% in relation to physical aspects, cone on guys! There is more to a person than the way the look! :) (Although I agree that that does matter to a certain degree).
2016-04-01 01:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn-ons... A sexy smile, clean appearance, the smell of her perfume, the way she struts her stuff. Turn-offs if she smells like she has not had a bath in a month, bad breath, dumb girls who can't hold a conversation for more the five min.
2007-05-28 12:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by dheck03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confident, intelligent, funny, well dressed women are a big turn on for me.
Women that are fake really bug the crap outta me. The ones that act one way, but weeks (or even months) later they show their true selves...man...I hate that!
2007-05-28 12:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Da Phantom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Immitating giving oral with a food or like your finger. xD Oh and touching. Lots of touching. Teasing too. xD So many different things that turn me on. Hell, i have just kissed my girlfriend before and suddenly i am hornyer then a dog in heat.
lol anyway. There are so many different things that turn us on. One of my all time favorites is, "dirty" or erotic talk.
2007-05-28 12:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by Nate 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TURN OFF= someone that does not know what she wants.
TURN ON= someone who knows what she wants and expresses it with out hesitation
2007-05-28 12:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by lasdoom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn-ons: Attractive face, DSLs, big breasts, flirtatious, loud moaning in bed
Turn-offs: Fat stomachs, tattoos, tan lines, smokers, witches with a "b"
2007-05-28 12:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by Evan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a turn on is a girl that knows what she is doing and can do it well
a turn off is a girl that is not confident
confidence is sexy
2007-05-28 12:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by al 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kissing nibbling , anything on the neck and ears, you'd be surprised about the ears.
2007-05-28 12:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋