I am 14! I am going out with a guy named Andrew! He is 18! I asked him out and he said yes! YAY!
2007-05-28 11:19:48 · 33 answers · asked by courtw33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Normally I would be happy for someone who got up the nerves to ask someone out and they said yes. But this scenerio doesn't sit right with me. What does a high school grad have in common with an 8th grader? Be careful hun, he may go to jail
2007-05-28 11:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♫♪justpassingby♪♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO NO NO!! You need to stop seeing him. You're only 14!!!
Stop and think "Why did an 18-year say yes to a 14-year old " I'm not saying anything BAD about you, but c'mon, an 18 year old? I have a feeling you may be back on Yahoo in a few days asking if you should really have sex with him because he's already mentioned it.
you won't be so happy when you find out you may be a 14-year old mother!!
2007-05-28 11:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're 18 if you want to date the same guy, or find someone your own age.
Legally, you're just going to get him in trouble if you end up having a sexual relationship with him. Most 18 y/o guys will go for it even though not right, but if upset parents or adults get involved then you've done a good job by enticing him to rape you, sartorially of course. So do yourself and him a huge favor... Re-read the first part of my answer and think about it.
-Good Luck
2007-05-28 11:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by kperry1911 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now is the time to cut ties with him. He is 18 yrs old. in the states eyes he's an adult. If it gets out that you are dating him and you are only 14, he can go to jail, and be charged for child molesting or any other types of arrests that involves a child, and the harder part for you is you have no say about it. Your parents can file charges, so it's best to cut ties, and find someone your age.
2007-05-28 11:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you parent dont let you go out with him.
you dont know how guys think at that age.
tips , i dont know the guy.
you dont want to be a mom of 14 or 15 year old.
think in your education, then find a guy
when you are more mature around berween 18 , i think is mature age to start dating.
I tell you this is the true.
it would be sad you get pregnant at that age. you future will not be easy at all.
take care girl.
2007-05-28 11:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's an idiot and if you are too young to be in any relationship.
I know your going to do what you want anyway. All I can say is that if he gets caught both of you (specially him) is going to regret it for the next 20 years or so, and yes I'm talking jail time here!!!
PLEASE DO THE RIGHT THING
enjoy being 14!!! there's the rest of your life for you to find the right person to love.
take care!!!
2007-05-28 11:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jay77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me smash my face with this brick - and the brick said yes
doesn't that make me so cool?????
are you a sophomore in high school? - that comes from the two greek words
Wise - Fool - wake up - there is a real world out there
no guys older than 2 years above your age until you are an adult in your state
4x your age - been there - have not done that!
2007-05-28 11:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by tom4bucs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your ready for a relationship like this. Did you know that your current boyfriend can get arrested for dating you? He probably only wants one thing from you. I hate to tell you that. It sucks.. I found that out the hard way.. I was 13 & the guy was 17. Things arent always as good as they seem.
2007-05-28 11:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Randa 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he's eighteen, he'll do time if he does you...
Second...put on your best pair of patience pants, and wait four more years...Jesus Christ on a popsicle stick, young lady...!
Third...an eighteen year old has no business even looking at a 14-year-old...Holy Moly...!!!
If you must date, please date guys younger than 18, so you don't "accidently" send them to prison...remember...your State will prosecute, even if it's consensual, and you're in love...
2007-05-28 11:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well depending, thats illegal... what do your parents say. I have a 14 year old daughter and I would say NO WAY. 18 year olds are adults your still a child wait a few years.
2007-05-28 11:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by rthompson1965 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋