my girlfriend has seemed aufuly sad lately. she won't tell me what's wrong. i just want to know what i can do or say to make her happier.
2007-05-28 10:17:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make sure you let her know that you are only there to try and listen to her, and try and make things better. you may have done somethign worng and not know it, so politely ask her if you did anything wrong, and say that you will fix it if you did. Just remind her that you always want her to be happy and you will do whatever you can to make her feel that way. girls love it.
2007-05-28 10:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by kristeenuhh20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show up at her house with a big bag full of chocolate kisses, flowers and a teddy bear. Give her the kisses and tell her that every time she eats one it will be a kiss from you to her. Tell her to squeeze the teddy everytime she gets sad and to think of you thinking of her, and tell her that the flowers made you think of her beauty but they still don't compare. Then give her a big hug and a kiss, and tell her that you are there for anything that she needs. And then take her out to a nice dinner, and afterwards while you are cuddled up somewhere tell her that she means a lot to you. Tell her that if there is anything that is bothering her that you want to listen because you care and love her and you want her to be happy. But don't push it, and she may end up opening up to you about it. Just be there for her and not only tell her those things but mean them, us girls can tell the difference. Good luck.
2007-05-28 17:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this must be serious because she won't even talk about it to her own boyfriend. Hmmm.... try saying this "Honey (or whatever cute name you would actually say) you seem sad a lot now and I really want to know what it is so I can help. I really care about you." something along these lines. Be original because if you seem to be quoting something she won't take the "fake-sympathy."
2007-05-28 17:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by kandykell2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could just be in a bad mood. Girls go through mood swings. Hormones will do that to you. Or you could kiss her, make her look u in the eyes, hold her and tell her that u're not letting go until she tells u wut's wrong. girls love that.
2007-05-28 17:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Amity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know... usually the best thing in this situation is to just be there for her. Just to reassure her that it'll be ok and you're there when she needs you. I know that when I'm down, that's all I want from my bf... I just need him to be there to hold my hand and remind me it'll be ok... You know? Eventually, she'll probably tell you what's going on...
2007-05-28 17:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by -->[Institutionalized]<-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surprise her with flowers, candy and a romantic date. If you don't push her or pressure her into telling you, she'll eventually feel comfortable enough to do just that.
2007-05-28 17:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mechiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb its da time of da month, just ask her and sit and talk or buy her flowers that may cheer her up! good luck hun xx
2007-05-28 17:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect that she doesnt want to talk about it and just make sure she knows that you are there for her. thats about all you can do. hopefully she will talk to someone or you and it will all be better.
2007-05-28 17:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by freakyfluter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be a form of depression?
Talk to her, and maybe her Mother.
2007-05-28 17:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well roses,out to dinner, massage, making love any of that would make her calmer but not making love. Making love is just to get her closer to you.
2007-05-28 17:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by Xiao G 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋