My parents don't want me to go into Law Enforcement. I feel this is where I should be. I have had an interest in Law Enforcement for about 2 years now ever since I graduated from High School. I have tried explaining to them this is where I want to be. As of right now I have a great job, but it isn't what I want to do. I want to be able to help people. I want to be a full time Police Officer or School Resource Officer or something having to do with our Sheriff's Office. I just can't seem to make them understand this is what I want to do. I have thought about this and prayed about this and I feel this is where I need to be. I need some suggestions for how I can get my parents to understand that this is what I really want to do with my life.
2007-05-28 10:05:38 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley P 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
I am in the same shoes, but it is my wife. I am going to be 30 and I have a great paying job. I have been in the reserves for about 9 years. If I don't make my move now I will never for I am 2nd on a hire list. It will just be a matter of days before I get the call to be hired. Having a family now with a 20 month old and a wife is a little different than yours, but it is still a hard decision to make. YOU HAVE DO DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. I am like you, a people person. You just have to stay strong with your decision!!!!! good luck
Jay
2007-05-28 11:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by jay c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what it is that your parents don't like about the profession. They may be worried that you'll get shot. And, that's a reasonable concern.
There are lots of areas of law enforcement you can work. If you want to be on patrol, then pursue this. You're parents will support you, if not immediately, eventually. Other areas you may consider is Prison Guards, Parole officer, or working in the Court Systems.
Good luck.
2007-05-28 10:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by Zeltar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask this it means you are not ready.
When you want to be a cop you don't ask for permission or understanding. You just do what you know is right.
But as an advice I'd sugest you to wait at least to be 21 or older and take some criminal and law courses in collage and physical training. It's a dangerous and hard job and if you are too young it can be harder. You need to be ready in body and mind. If you feel you are not ready at this moment use the time to perepare yourself.
2007-05-28 10:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an adult. Go to the police station and ask them what you need to do to become a police officer. After about 6 months your parents will be more proud of you than they ever were before.
My parents ALWAYS told me to never dare go the military. I signed up before I even graduated, to the Marine Corps no less. When my parents came to my graduation in PI, SC, they later told me that they were never more proud of me.
2007-05-28 10:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to remember that some parents are never completely happy with any of the decisions their children make. Your job, spouse, house, whaddeva. So you shouldn't try to make them happy. Weird that they would be against you being a cop. Why don't you tell them you're thinking about becoming a career criminal.
2007-05-28 11:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand they are your parents, but what say do they have in your major life choices? Go to the academy and start your life. Even if they kick you out, find a roommate at the academy.
2007-05-28 10:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are of age, your parents should be listened to, but in the end you alone can make this decision for yourself. I do agree that your parents only want you safe, and I agree that another career should considered
2007-05-28 10:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by jean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a dangerous job there worried let them know youll be fine i know my son is going to the academy i dont want him to go either but its your choice thats your calling tell your parents they train u to protect yourself and its the best thing for u and its helping others once u graguate from the academy thell change there mind and when they see u in that uniform thell be proud
2007-05-28 14:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by dvcgurl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, they're your parents. But you have to live your own life, not let them do it.
Sounds like mama doesn't want to see her little boy grow up. Don't let them control your life or career choice. You'll regret it forever.
2007-05-28 12:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by TedEx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to move out and sever the apron strings
2007-05-28 12:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by charlsyeh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋