Spiritual Question for Wiccans?

Question

My mother and I are having issues. I'm a constant disappointment to her. She's moving tomorrow and I don't want to be around her because all she will do is bring me down and point out everything I have ever done wrong. It really hurts and I just don't want to deal with the negativity when I already have enough on my mind. Is there something I can do to help my situation with my mother? I feel stupid asking this, but maybe a spell or something?And I dont' mean like something that would completely fix the problem, but may something that would give out positive energy? Hell, I don't know what I'm asking! LOL I'm new to the Wiccan religion so forgive me if I sound like an undereducated idiot. LOL Thanks!

Blessed be

My mother doesn't know that I've changed my religion. She's not even religious herself. My parents are libral Christians. They don't go to church or read the Bible. So Steve, why don't you stop making assumptions you know nothing about, okay? thanks.

Answer 1

You can do something very simple to help your relationship with your mother, and it doesn't require her permission nor are you violating any universal laws. Get a rose quartz stone and charge it with your positive thoughts.. think things like " a good relationship between us" "positivity when we're together" etc... do this for a good 20-30 minutes (just hold it in your hands when you do it) and then give it to your mother as a housewarming gift. Or make it part of a housewarming gift.. see if that doesn't help.

Big hugs.
and, btw, you don't sound like an undereducated idiot at all. We all had to start somewhere.
Kallan

Answer 2

¬You should not start attempting spells until you completely understand what wicca is, and what spellwork is. Spells can go horribly wrong. You need to make sure you use the right correspondances, the right wording, and it should be timed correctly too. A GREAT place to start is "The only Wiccan Spellbook You'll Ever Need." I have been reading that and it has great lists of herbs, colors, stones, and anything else you could need. it also lists out magickal timings and stuff like that. Part 2 offers sample spells that you can begin with. but it is important to remember that a spell is like a prayer. The single most important ingredient is your intent, and your commitment to the spell. You also have to believe in your heart that what your doing will work.

While I dont recommend doing this spell yet, I will tell you that if you cannot obtain the book i mentioned, do a search for wiccan correspondances. You can use oils, herbs, candles... anything you feel in your heart will help. Look for ingredients that will attract possitive energy to you. To attract positive energy the spell should be done during the waxing moon. I believe it is full so youll have to wait. thats good. you have time to do the necissary research. also if you do look correspondances up online make sure to cross reference everything with other sights as some people may be miss informed, or out to sabatage others (unfortunately those people are out there.) I usually check things 3 times.

Scott Cunningham also has many many books on correspondances, and they are sold EVERYWHERE!

Answer 3

if she's moving tomorrow, don't worry about this right away. just help her move then start trying to help your relationship with her.

as far as spellwork, since you're new to wicca, i would ask some more experienced witches or wiccans to help you out who you personally know and who know the situation. magick can be a dangerous thing if you don't know what you're doing.

good luck on your path and with your mother. i will send some positive energy your way : )

Answer 4

who the hell would join a stupid hippy b.s. religion? transfering energy into a quartz stone???? you have got to be kidding!!!!!!

last time i checked, science didn't say that a stupid rock could read your mind and make your mom like you!!!!

hahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

I would be disappointed too if my daughter turned to a pagan religion and thought she could solve her problem by casting spells. Why don't you try talking to your Mom instead.