I just really do not understand?

Question

Many girls (including me) believe that guys do really like thin girls. We torture ourselves with different diets, go to gyms million times a week. But from what I observe in the streets....I see a lot of couples where guys are really slim, but girls are quite say big. And it does not disturb them. Maybe I am wrong? And stick-thin girls are noe that popular. What do you think? How should an attractive girl look like?

Answer 1

NEVER tell yourself skinny equals hot. there is absolutely nothing wrong with any body size. all the girls out there that look at models in magazines and say that they want to look like them, i did a research project on that and guess what? you're basically looking at a photoshopped image with all the retouching that goes into making a photo to be submitted. one model said that she stayed in bed for seven years straight because she wasn't as beautiful as her picture is.

if the guy doesn't like you because you're aren't "good looking," MOVE ON. he is NOT worth your time. there is some guy out there who thinks you are the most beautiful person ever and would be willing to give his soul to make you smile. there is someone out there who actually cares about more than just looks. trust me, i'm one of them.

Answer 2

Not all people are born to be skinny and we fight off the fat. Guys like big girls too. You should never be fat on purpose but you should accept you for who you are because not everyone is going to be alike.

I think stick thin is disgusting. I think women should look more like Tyra Banks not Angelina. A girl should always be neat and clean with a big smile...then you'll go far.

Yes, this is my opinion and will not be popular with others I am sure. Just love yourself and others will love you more!

Answer 3

Guys like girls with curves, are "soft", have breasts, and junk in the trunk. Advertising, Hollywood, and the fashion industry try to perpetuate the myth that skinny and hard-bodied is better. Some guys like "the look" of all of that but it isn't much to comfort and turn them on when the lights go out, if you know what I mean.And guys who seem attracted to hipless, breastless women are a little suspect in their heterosexuality

Answer 4

I don't understand why unhealthy (fat) is being touted as okay. Its not what guys want thats important its whats healthy. And 30 pounds overweight is obese. Why don't you ask a number of guys who married slim women and 5 years later have a woman 50 pounds heavier? After you do that then can you say it does not disturb them.

Answer 5

some guys just like big girls!.there are a lot of dating sites on the internet for larger people.
a lot of guys are worried what their friends would think/say if they were to date a larger woman
some guys just don't care what people think!
but a lot of guys are not attracted to stick thin women either.

Answer 6

Honey, you just need to be healthy, eat well and exercise. Different men like different things. Alot of attraction, after the lust, is how compatible you are with your man. So there is no one answer. Just make sure you respect and love yourself. I'l l tell you one thing, men do like a confident woman who is comfortable in her own skin.

Answer 7

to get attention you dont have to be the thinnest or the prettiest girl in the room - you have to be the most self confident one and if you dont feel that self confident - fake it until you make it!!!
on average - men dont like stick thin girls (boys do), they like girls who have something to look at and something to grab on, girls that have something in the front and in the back to look at.

Answer 8

You want honesty? Most guys want a girl with some meat on her... Some curves. Most men (myself included) want a women with med to large breast and a med to big booty. But it really depends on the man.

Answer 9

guys dont want to date women you look like skeletons.. its unhealthy,,,healthy looking with nice tone and shape is more attractive than a stick figure..