where can a find a girl that is worth talking to?
someone who can love me for me? just where are the good girls at. the ones that will allow me to love them. i mean i like to give compliments and give flowers for no reason at all. just b/c i love you i want to hold your hand and show you the way you should be treated. yep not your typical guy. my last gf didnt like all that stuff. does anyone?
2007-05-28 07:54:05 · 19 answers · asked by herbertj2686 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to look. Im like that.. My favorite thing to do with a b/f is sit on the couch or bed and cuddle and watch tv. I think a guy being romantic is nice and sweet, and it makes me feel really special. I love having somene to love for who they are and having someone love me for who i am.
Its hard to find guys like that too, so its not just you cant find a girl like that.
2007-05-28 08:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by chetzel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are a couple of things you can do. If you are a religious person, I suggest going to church socials and things like that. It is a good place to find women with similar beliefs and common interests and it is a low pressure atmosphere. But no matter where you meet a girl, it is important not to come on too strongly at first. Most girls like flowers and things like that but they do not like to feel like they are being pressured or smothered right away. Give her time to get to know you before you start showing too much affection. If a woman feels like you are just looking for love anywhere you can find it, they will not feel like you love them for who they are. So you need to go slowly so that they know you are interested in HER and not just the idea of a girlfriend. That is why it is a good idea to be freinds with her before you become romantically interested.
2007-05-28 15:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well well well. i guess the good guys do finish last, huh??? not even. don't even start thinking that something is wrong with you b/c you don't have such good choices in females. and that's ok. we all make some bad choices before something clicks and we realize the error of our ways. it's part of the learning experience. very few of us get it right on the first try. those of us who do are special. those of us who dont' are normal. there is something about you that keeps seeking and attracting unappreciative women. they have an insecurity about them that you might be trying to save in some indirect way. by throwing compliments and constantly doing the unthinkable, you actually make some of them doubt their own worth. a person who can't take a compliment, doesn't feel worthy of that compliment. what you are looking for is a woman who is confident in herself and doesnt' need you to pay them compliments and send flowers for no reason for her to feel loved. she loves herself and you loving her doesn't change that, it adds to it.
2007-05-28 15:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by tweety3282001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i like all that stuff you said , i mean who wouldn't ...but look , sometimes some people need something more ....i mean something in other aspect...maybe that's the reason you think you're last gf didn't like all those things.....you should see what the girl you meet needs and she should do the same to you so you can build up a relationship .....but anyway , i think you're a very sweet guy and from what you said it shows you are passionate and caring which is very important....i hope you find someone who deserves you and can make you happy like the way you make her happy;)
2007-05-28 15:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like the flower giving and gift giving out of the blue b/c that shows that I was on your mind even though we weren't physically together. Every girl wants 2 know you care and that your care and that your love her. That's just us.... Holding her hand that shows that you want every one around you 2 know that you like this girl and aren't afraid to let the world know it. And no matter what any other girl says girls want to be treated like they are celebrities, queen of your world, given and respect, and loved. Make sure when you find that *right girl* let her know quite often just how much you care!
Ms_A-Rod
2007-05-28 15:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. A-Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are some out there but what it is is they are only young and they are not ready to settle into a serious relationship. When you get 40 year old a woman would appreciate having a man like you but not at the age group you are at now. Just have fun and stop getting to serious.
2007-05-28 14:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a good girl. I know exactly how you feel too. The last guy I went out with just wanted me to have a g/f. Girls ⥠guys who hold them ALOT. I sure love it. I'm sure you will find that one perfect girl someday. :)
2007-05-29 16:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww. =) I do. So rest assured that there are girls out there that like that kind of stuff. However, stop looking for love. It'll find out. It sounds cliche, but it's actually true. The best ones come to us when we're not looking for them.
2007-05-28 14:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I looooooooooooovvvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeeee that sort of stuff yet hey everyone's different! Some girls like to take life on there own others like some guidence and comfort!
2007-05-28 15:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Twinkiezey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I got to say something. Don't just date any girl. I'm the sameway man. Take your time first and get to know the girl before you call her your girlfriend. We can find the people we want when we become the same people. You might move to fast and you'll find the girls who want to move to fast.
2007-05-28 14:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by yaabro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋