I am a flirt even with guys who have girlfriends the thing is i didnt notice until someone told me about myself!!! I still do it though because idk it just feels right. lol seriously.
2007-05-28 06:24:48 · 17 answers · asked by kayla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Feel free to do whatever you want. Just don't hurt other people. How you treat other poeple is how people will treat you. Ask yourself, "If I was her, would I like me?" KARMA
2007-05-28 06:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by Diver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably suffering from a low self esteem. People who constantly flirt and constantly want feedback from others are usually not comfortable enough with themselves that they can be alone and NOT the center of attention.
Or it could be the ego stroking you get when you can pull a man's attention from his girlfriend to you. You somehow feel better about yourself because he is choosing to turn his attention to you.
Or... by flirting with everyone, it prevents you from engaging in a lengthy conversation and perhaps falling for someone.... in other words, fear of relationships.
Either way, if ask yourself if that's truly the type of person you want to be. If it is, then keep on doing it. If not, then you need to do some soul searching.
2007-05-28 13:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by ookami007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wuz up? It sorta is a big deal if you flirt with guys who already have girlfriends. Yeah it's fun for us but then that makes our girlfriend mad at us and then she's gonna wanna fight u. I used to be a big flirt myself until the same thing happened to me. Flirting is VERY fun but jus make sure it won't get u in any trouble. Hope this helps!
2007-05-28 13:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by silverfox64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hoe, whore, tramp....no one likes those words, right? Well sweetie those are the words that will define you if you flirt with taken men! Flirting is fine if you are single. Just be sure the men are single too because once you get a man, what goes around comes around!
2007-05-28 13:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cool to flirt with other womens boyfriends. If you don't know that you are doing it, maybe you should take a step back and figure out if you really are flirting with them. As far as flirting with single men.... that's fine. Flirting is harmless.
2007-05-28 13:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a huge flirt.
One time I was flirting with this girl, and someone told me that she was married.
I said, "ohh come on, I don't flirt with married women!" Then I paused for about 3-4 seconds and said, " I flirt with all women!!!"
2007-05-28 13:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jeremy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wouldn't act that way in front of the other person's significant other, then it's not right for you to be doing it. However, if you act that way with everyone, guys and girls, it just means you're a social butterfly and like engaging with other people. That's all, and don't let anyone feel bad or ashamed for doing so.
2007-05-28 13:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in the gf's shoes would you want another girl flirting with your bf? I would stop due to the fact you could build some enemies rather quickly and a bad rep for yourself.
2007-05-28 13:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by i_b_winkn_at_u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its definately feels great to flirt and you feel good about yourself but dont flirt with guys that are involved. Then youre a SLUT!
2007-05-28 13:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs.ThinkALot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't flirt w/ guys that have girlfriends . people will start to assume you're a sl.ut & the girls will start to hate you . other then that , if the guy is single , & you're single , flirt away =)
2007-05-28 13:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by Chante Alexis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋