but she is 3 months 3 weeks pregunt 1 year older than me and she is finna be in the 12th next year (just 1 grade ahead of me). my friends said i shouldent give her a chances becauses she already finna have a baby they think i should just leave her alone but i dont think thats the right thing to do can someone help me (give me some advise) P.S. but both of us are vary mature we both have our own car and we both have a job
2007-05-28 06:14:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you're opening a can of worms.
If she was mature, she would have known about birth control. (assuming she wasn't raped).
I'd stay away - she's made her choices that are far to complex for you to understand the ramifications of getting involved. Do you seriously want to be the father of someone else's child?
2007-05-28 06:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by wigginsray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your feelings, a life time friendship could be on the rise with this girl. Her circumstances should not interfere with your decision. She needs a "good" friend and it sounds as though you are a "smart" guy, and know what's up! Friends are wonderful to have, but you should make Your own way and decisions in life, not listen to the crowd, or follow them. You may close the door to some of life's wonderful discoveries. Be safe, and you know what I mean, (wrap-up). Take this slowly and get all the facts - make sure she is not looking for a "baby daddy"... there is already one -
2007-05-28 06:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a car and part time job does not make you mature! You shouldnt be with someone because you petty them cause eventually you'll end up hurting them more than anyone had. Sound like she is already in enough mess herself, she shouldn't complicate matter. Being a supportive friend is alway an option if you feel sorry for her!!
2007-05-28 06:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl has ENOUGH going on in her life right now. You need to leave her alone. It appears that relationships with guys have caused her enough problems already. Maybe she needs a break and take care of the mess she's already in. You need to find someone else. Sorry, that's the way life goes sometimes.
Kent in SD
2007-05-28 06:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by duckgrabber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right to you. Just remember, not to give up anything that makes you a better person. Exsamples: Not finishing your education to "help" out with the baby. Not going out with your friend or participating in activities because her and the baby "need" you. Giving a lot your money to her and the baby to "help" out. Truely, I believe you should do what your heart says to do. Just be careful that she is not wanting to be with you to use you. Sometimes responsible people get used. Maybe she is feeling really scared and needs a friend.
2007-05-28 06:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Diver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer do it dude! She is calling for somebody in charge this on or help her with the aid of this. She do no longer sound extremely smart. first element she is pregnant and basically seventeen. I see this each and all the time. youngsters do no longer make it mutually. shall we are saying you to could do something loopy like get married considering you experience sorry for her and prefer to help. in line with hazard you to are mutually for a year or 2 and make certain to break up. If the real father does not pay baby assist you presently will considering you took duty for this baby. do no longer DO IT. in basic terms be a miles off buddy. hear to an grownup who has been around.
2016-12-12 04:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no leave her alone, and trust me don't ask her cozz no girl wants to get in relationship with boyzz younger than her, u don't wanna be embarressed, am saying tht just 4 ur own good, am really soorry, btw u said she is having a baby, so that is a no too,am deeply soorry, but u could alwayz look 4 another one, but wait...i heard tht love knows no age, i know some1 that wants to get married to a guy younger than her in 15 yrs...alooot, beleive it or not they love each other, anywayzz don't listen to me, listen to ur heart, and no one else just 4get everything i said....good luck, i hope u'd get or have whatever ur wishing 4... :)
2007-05-28 06:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Nano 19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she dont want to be in a relationship wit cha. I mean mayb she jsut dont think its the right time fo her to get involved n all...tell her that it dont matta that she is PG n all that u like her enough to want to help her thru this n u can take it day by day
2007-05-28 06:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't try to get with a girl who is pregnant cause it's not good to deal with baby mama and baby daddy drama, believe me I know cause when I was in high school in my senior year I wanted to talk to this girl who was expecting and she was cool and gave me her phone number.Her baby's daddy was always fighting and arguing with her.His was one of my friends so he got mad about me and would not talk to me anymore and she asked me to the prom but I said no.If I were you I would not try to get in a relationship with her.
2007-05-28 06:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by Htown/Philly4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does the girl like you? well its maybe because of the fact that she's having a baby in a couple of months that she doesn't want to date. babies need alot of attention you know, even if the baby is still in the mother';s womb
2007-05-28 06:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by Rumba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋