I am an average guy, and girls don't feel sexually attracted to me
are looks that important, well basically i am a nice guy by heart and know how to treat women, if any girl is interested in seeing my profile let me know, i have an account with POF
what can i do to create attraction.
Please provide suggestions
2007-05-28 05:49:06 · 14 answers · asked by Kewl guy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nononono.
somebody being attractive is just a PLUS.
but if they arent, id still love them for whats on the inside, not out.
2007-05-28 05:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by Maddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Most girls who are serious about a caring relationship will look for a man with a good heart. Of course it is easier to attract women if you look like Brad Pitt, but this doesn't mean that you will end up in a loving, caring and loyal relationship. I'm not sure how old you are but as you get older a lot of girls tend to stop looking at the superficial factors and look for an intelligent man who can make them laugh and who will take care of them. You sound like all of these things and I doubt that you will have trouble finding the right woman, she probably just hasn't crossed paths with you yet! Btw, sexual attraction that is based on looks alone, fades quickly. The deepest sexual attraction is when you feel an emotional connection with the other person so I definately wouldn't worry about that!
Good luck and I hope you find your dream girl.
Also, if it's any consolation look at Bill Gates... he is really unattractive and yet he and his wife have an awesome relationship. Yes... I do realise he is the richest man in the world but I don't think he is blind :o)
2007-05-28 05:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God...could you be anymore desperate! LOL. It's kind of interesting that you pulled out the word 'attractive' rather than something like 'nice looking'. Because in my terms I deem a guy as attractive based on the inside and the outside. So appearance does have an affect..but the difference lies in what we deem as attractive. Now that's where the tricky part lies. You see, every girl has her set of guidelines but the unfortunate part lies in the fact that most girls...especially the young ladies [minus myself and a few others that I know] get attracted to a guy whose got a great bod/has nice hair...etc. While others look at a guy inside and out. I mean, its natural that we feel an attraction first toward a guy and then if we've got guts then we walk up to a guy and start talking to them. I know some guys that are so bloody shy and I do notice that they like me...but they never make the first move...its always myself that I have to start it. I hope this helped. And be patient....if you start getting frustrated about this...don't. It's bad to be desperately looking...like they do in the movies sometimes.. that's a stupid maneuver....because in reality the 'one' actually just pops into your life with you least expecting it..and NOT by online...that's for certain. So the final lesson that you should be getting out of this is....be patient because the right is out there...its just that the time hasn't come yet...so don't jump on the first girl that looks at you or something. Sorry, if this is soo long but it seems to me that a lot of guys are facing your problem. And you are attractive...it's just that the one that sees you as such hasn't stepped into your life...yet. Take Care.
2007-05-28 06:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by ilovehorses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends. If you are just interested in SEX, then girls that are horny will probably go for a hot guy, but if you want a relationship then start with a friendship with a girl. Compliment her. Endear yourself to her. Pay attention to things she says. If she tells you she likes carnations, buy her one. If she tells you she loves a particular song, get her the cd and tell her you were thinking about her. Make her feel special and she will see you as special also. By making yourself accessible, friendly and sweet, you will inject yourself into her heart, and she will find you irresistible.
2007-05-28 06:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by whattawow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that its all about the charm, there might be this really cute guy but if he is too shy or has bad body language he won't get noticed, no girl will feel atracted to him, however a not so bad looking guy with a great body language a little charm and a big heart always wins the girls heart...
2007-05-28 05:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by cutie-pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Girls don't only like attractive guys.
Have you seen pictures of Marilyn Monroe and Joe DiMaggio?
Pick out the prettiest girl that you know and ask her out. Pretty girls don't want to compete with pretty guys. They pick bald headed, short, stocky guys so every now and then they can feel special.
2007-05-28 05:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find the right girl for you who isn't shallow, only caring about looks. As long as you are a nice guy, you will find a nice girl who wants to be with you.
2007-05-28 05:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by Christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 04:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by carol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm male too - the girls should not go by looking 1st.
The personality is something that should matter!! Some people dont unsderstand that.
2007-05-28 05:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by Will 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not only attractive guys get girls. most hott guys are jerks and they lose thier gf's in like a week. if you have more to the heart then you will get a great girl who will like you alot.
2007-05-28 05:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋