I often wonder why men become unfaithful to their partners. I have lots of female friends who had broken hearts because their men became unfaithful. I read an article too that while women can fake orgasm, men could fake the whole relationship. Why can't men just break off with their partners first before getting into another relationship with the better woman that they think they would like to be with. That way, the pain would be lesser, at least. Guys please answer...
2007-05-28 03:24:43 · 9 answers · asked by beth_dyosa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im sure nothing fake at the begining sweety , The faking starts when the problems starts. Look a man is not born just to make love and split. I cant speak for all men but personally its not right to fake anything or to cheat on someone either.
But this is why i think that happens:
It all starts nice the flames are hot,they both want to impress each oher,roses are bought ,sex is passionate and then......something goes wrong
Well after a while everyone knows everyone good enough and things get boring(this is the crutial faze of a relationship, its where sombody gives up sort of speak example: the woman doesnt get in the mood anymore that much for sex or the man just doesnt care about her feelings that much anymore ,this happens mostly out of money problems or third party people getting in the way(a clasical situation is the man comes home and is looking for sexual happines with his girl but the girl isnt happy because she hasnt been out with him for a while because of work and tiredness,this is fixable a woman should always want to please the man in bed and not get growchy(exept for those days of the month and other natural problems tired from work ect.) Also the man should take her out more often in order for things not to get dull even if he is dead tired(each should push themselves to the limits in order for happiness to prevail) If one pushes and the other nothing it wont work.Most people say who cares(WELL THATS THE PROBLEM)If one or both dont care anymore for each others happiness thats when the cheating happens on both sides.When a relationship happens each lives in there own worlds with their own needs after a while though that should turn into our world or (US) they cannot be together as a couple by only looking for there own well being( 2 people become one) and both should understand it wanting or not.The two partners should be willing to gain there relationships but lose some personal detail in order to be compatible. Now because this is so hard to acheive most men and women find the easy way out of things just by cheating ,and actually they cheat themseles because they are not worthy of making a relationship work in the first place.No guts no Glory'
They try to fill in the gaps of there problems by cheating instead of talking or working it out,whilst keeping the relationship there just incase it gets better(false hoping and living the moment
(((((( It takes two to tango in everything))))))))
2007-05-28 03:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by booker_52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of men are weak when it comes to sex, especally if things at home have gotten routine and start being taken for granted. And I think a BIG part of the problem lies with the women out there that know this and shamelessly play on their egos and make them think they can give them everything they ever needed and more...and that the wife isnt good enough. It makes them start ot question their marriage and their life. Women like this know exactly what they are doing and they see a married man as a keeper...it doesnt matter if he is someone elses keeper...they want them for theirself and will do and say anything to get what they want. I think if more women would have more respect for other women and for marriages and leave a married man alone and not feel his head with absurd thoughts, there would be much less cheating. Just MY opinion.
2016-03-13 00:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men stray for the same reasons women do, there is little difference. Women actually cheat at a higher rate than men do according to recent studies. Maybe if women didn't cheat so much, men wouldn't either...
2007-05-28 03:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have sex for a long time like I did I got rid of mine and not to mention got up to 360lbs. Nothing uglier than try to put it in and see all the fat giggle unless your too fat, sorry.
Once a King always a King but once a Night is Not Enough!
2007-05-28 03:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Spike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not help but I can't answer the question. I've never done that. So, there are guys who don't do that. I suspect they do it because they have a greater appetite for getting than they have for giving in relationships.
2007-05-28 03:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason they want to pee when they see a fire hydrant. Its genetically implanted in the brain. They see a pretty woman and want to breed. Been that way thousands of years.
Lauren J nailed it!
2007-05-28 03:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Army Retired Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, but women do it too, just less often. They want both women at the same time, and not have to give up either one.
2007-05-28 03:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by WE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Possibly beacause you dont spend enough quality time!
2007-05-28 03:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that they think the other woman is better, its that they like variety....... they aren't by nature faithful.
2007-05-28 03:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋