I'm 24 and never had a boyfriend but I have a lot of guy bestfriends. Does being "bestfriend material" totally make guys cross you of the "potential girlfriend" list?
2007-05-28 03:22:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anarwen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listennn.... to ya boy. Being friend material as you call it is a good thing. When most people choose a friend its based on your personality, how comfortable they are around, and how much you have together. What guy wouldn't want a girlfriend who is fun to be with and always make them comfortable to just be their self. You just have to let guys who you want to be more than friends with see you in a different light. For example look really good when you to are going to do something and he's there. Once he sees you this way unless he's stupid he'll fall for you.
2007-05-28 03:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by DuvalKing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what type of guy it is and what type of guy attracts you personally. There are flirty guys and there are guys who just lay back and get girlfriends from girl friends. I like the laid back guys more because at least you get to know them more and you can pick out which guy friend has the qualities you're looking for. I think a relationship can't even work without getting to know the guy as a friend first. I think you're on the right track!
2007-05-28 03:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by My Name Doesn't Fit Here 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily - it clearly provides the level of comfort and trust with each other.
Some guys may be attracted to you but don't think you want anything more.
Other guys may just see you as a friend - I have always found I can talk to women about "issues" easier than I can other fellas.
Good luck
2007-05-28 03:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by Matt G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a Maturity thing. Even at 24, deep inside you know the truth. But the truth depends on your question. "Do I want a Relationship of growth, or do I just want to not be alone?" If you truly desire more than simple companionship, you must have a friendship. Otherwise, how can you ever trust one-another?
2007-05-28 03:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by coloradotrevor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Friendships that are lasting very frequently enhance the possibility of developing into a lasting romance. They do not cross you off of the potential girlfriend list!
2007-05-28 03:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't remove you from the list. But it probably moves you lower down, and reduces their attention level a bit. However there are the usual risks of not being able to go back to friends if it doesn't work etc. So make your decision carefully.
Good luck.
2007-05-28 03:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't. In fact, some guys are happy to enter the friend zone in order to have their foot in the door. It's much easier for a guy to go from friends to more than it is for a girl to go from friends to more. So although being friends may be detrimental to a guy who wants more, it's not detrimental to a girl who wants more.
2007-05-28 03:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jonathan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only trouble with dating a best friend is that if the relationship goes sour, your friendship can too. Youhave to decided which is more important- a relationship or a friendship.
2007-05-28 03:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 04:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No being a best frnd is great, but if u feel stronger about them then that try 2 hint it 2 them.
2007-05-28 03:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by adaamainks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋